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mleigh4 #2611682 10/02/15 03:11 AM
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Hey mleigh4, I totally get it, that some people are not the thrill seekers. I’m kind of like that too. I say “kind of”, because I’m doing things these days that I would not do before. So, I think it is all about the experimenting and seeing what you would be comfortable with. It has to come from the person though, you cannot force it. I agree with you that you don’t want to make your S to do what he is not comfortable of doing.

I think that your H just doesn’t want to understand it, because is he looking for an adventure buddy, who would do things with him. It’s like a teenager looking for somebody to share his fun with him. I might be wrong here. Time will tell… I think your H has to grow up, LOL.


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