Time to stop lurking and tell my story...

[Painter]

Is she aware of these changes that will take place, especially for the children? Is separation not an option - do you have to go right to D?

If she has any doubts, it would make sense to err on the side of preserving her M... but I guess she doesn't see that.

She is lucky that you are still there.

[JellyB]

Yes - that is it exactly... My faith is shaken (I went to church to pray after our discussion), and I often feel like why am I even trying to DB at this point. At this point it is her loss...

Hey npy

Your DBing, because you are realising that you need a tool that is going to help you save yourself. DBing is putting the oxygen mask on yourself first, and then on everyone else you love. That's your business and and what you have control and influence over in this moment, in the coming days. When your mask is on, you can help your kids. As for wife she needs to put her own mask on.

You got this npy! You really do, put your mask on and get ready for a bumpy ride! But know we are all right here beside you, feeling the bumps and waiting for that cruising altitude again.


Jellyxxx

[WhyUs]

NPY, if you provide some information in your signature line it will help others to have an idea of your sitch.