I wanted to thank you for stopping by my thread earlier and your wonderful, encouraging comments.
I don't know what I'd do without you!
By the way, how are things going today?
Bob xo
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Gan, Cali, RD and Bob, thanks for stopping by! I've had a busy couple of days working away. I'm normally just away one night, but this week it's two and I'm sat here in my hotel room with a glass of wine right now. I met up with a friend and her little boy after work tonight and we went out for dinner at a nice country pub.
She has been very supportive of my sitch and accepts that all decisions are mine. But tonight, even she was saying she didn't see a way back from this and it has been so long now. It's true - I'm not even sure that I want there to be a way back any more...
All quiet re: H. I haven't rushed back to him with suggested examples of my unreasonable behaviour. I figure I don't need to be super efficient in helping him move forward a D. If he wants them, he can remind me and I'll give them to him. Otherwise, I'm just completely dark right now.
Doing generally fine within myself. I notice that I'm not thinking about him and our sitch quite as much, which is good. I have no real idea what is happening with him, which kinda makes me life easier. Probably if I did know what he was up to it would make my hair curl!! Need to start a new thread soon....will do that when I'm back home again xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
I notice that I'm not thinking about him and our sitch quite as much, which is good. I have no real idea what is happening with him, which kinda makes me life easier. Probably if I did know what he was up to it would make my hair curl!! Need to start a new thread soon....will do that when I'm back home again xx
Toots, I feel the same way. When I don't hear from STBX or think about her, it is easier. Keeping myself busy helps keep the thoughts out of my head. Thank you for your post on my thread the other day:)
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
Out of sight,out of mind. That's good your not thinking about him as much Toots. I have the opposite problem living with W, lol. Slowly getting there the hard way.
Also, falconry
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
Hi Toots! A friendly reminder...you need to start a new thread. You have 104 replies and this one is going to lock very soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
