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Originally Posted By: Fogg
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That [censored], but I guess nothing you can do about it. You would think since she broke the M commitment and walked away it would impact her some in that matter.


Just so you know, it's identical in Michigan, Fogg.


I knew it was no fault state and the child support was calculated solely from how much each make. However, I thought I read somewhere maintenance is rarely given unless there are specific circumstances.


I'm not a lawyer, but my understanding is that MOST judges use a formula to determine whether spousal support should be given and how much it should be. This formula is exclusively based on income potential and child care responsibility. In my case, my income is substantially higher than my W, so I will likely have to pay. So we could agree on a number based on the formula. Or go to a judge, where the judge COULD decide ANYTHING. But my understanding is that generally it isn't based on the morality or fault behind the divorce.


Sorry for the hijack, Rip.


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"Shes already said she wont want alimony and doesn't even want child support."

Must be nice! Obviously the sitch isn't but getting bent over financially for something I don't want isn't any more fun!


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I feel for you, that is rough. Things in my sitch could always take a turn in that direction so I guess Ill see what happens eventually.

Our BD's are only 3 days apart, who would have thought this is where we would be 6 months later, lol.

Makes you wonder where we will be in another 6 months. Christmas/New-years will be a strange time of the year.


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Starting a new thread, cadet please link all the past for me.

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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2584025#Post2584025

Last edited by Cadet; 07/02/15 12:51 AM. Reason: Link

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