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I agree with the consensus. No. Your initial instinct and reasoning seems to be correct, IMHO. If you pursue she will distance. If you distance, she will pursue.

You are in my prayers, as promised.

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All:

Thank you so much! My gut instinct is right! grin No message of any type.

I'll have to be starting another thread it looks like, and I am heading into all day training.

I hope to respond to each of you individually tonight.

If I can't, please know I read every word of each post since I asked about texting last night.

Thank you ALL for your time, advice, thoughts and prayers! cool

*Hugs* to all...


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Well done on not sending anything. Mine was last Thursday and my fingers 'itched' all day to send something.

I am so glad I didn't. We can do this, Bob! :-)


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Hi Bob, just thinking about you and hoping you're getting through your day okay. Lots of good thoughts and prayers headed your way.

{{{hugs}}}
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M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
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11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
1/8/2016 H moved out

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