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Ok, while I was posting the last message got a txt from WW about taking S9 to childminders in the morning. Oh the irony.


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Hi NDY

Yeah, I see the conflict. She gave me a 'sad eye' stare last night for about ten seconds. I stared back as if to say 'what?', but she then looked away and mumbled something to herself. W then got off the sofa and hovered for a few seconds. I can see she wants to say something, just not sure what it is.

I will be the rock, the lighthouse, but I see I have to give tough love out; she has to come to me.

Good luck with childminder.


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And this is where patience come in. You will need lots of it.

You've read just as many threads as me, and in 100% of the cases there is an internal struggle going on with the WAS. Even with Py who just last night posted his his WW was happy and living the dream. I bet it's not that simple for her at all. So keep doing what your doing.


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Patience - I know. Sometimes I just need reassurance that I'm not going ga-ga and I'm pointing in the right direction!

Cheers bud.


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We all need that mate. I sometimes look at myself and think wtf am I doing. Get out of this crazy madness, it's not good for me. Then I look at S9 and I remember why.


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