Hi Bob! Thanks for the *hugs* I do need them. My H can't stand his dad and stepmom, so I don't know why he let them come. Ironically he doesn't like his dad because he left his mother when he was 5. And yes, Cadet if you're around, I find that age very interesting.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
So he put his ring back on while his dad is here. Bet it's off by tonight.
I don't really have anything to say, but I want to offer my support. I'm sorry times are tough right now. Keep moving forward and stay strong. Like you say, one foot in front of the other.
Eirinn, sending positive thoughts your way. It sounds like you are still living with H, but in separate bedrooms, right? If so, I understand how hard this whole process is. I am finding it hard to detach.
That is insane that your H invited inlaws, but you ended up having to entertain. That is nice of you and shows your character. It is certainly not your responsibility, but was what your higher self wanted to do. Kindness is such a key attribute of a woman that only a fool would leave! So where was H all this time?
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
Believe it or not, BW he was laying on the couch looking out the window or texting on his phone. If he didn't want to deal with them he should have said no to their visiting. But I will not allow guests in our house be ignored in such a way. First, it's rude and secondly, what does that teach our S? He loved meeting his other grandparents.
Yes he does still live here, in the room next to me. It makes it hard to detach, but at the same time it gives me space to find the better Eirinn. I think I'm beginning to come out of my funk too. Just was a rough few weeks.
Thanks for stopping by. I always like other points of views and I appreciate your support!
E
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
At least your S had opportunity to visit with grandparents.
How much do you and H interact? Are you speaking with each other or not much interaction? Lots of tension in my H at the moment, but I have H with active A.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
Hi Bob! Thanks for the *hugs* I do need them. Ironically he doesn't like his dad because he left his mother when he was 5. And yes, Cadet if you're around, I find that age very interesting.
Hi Eirinn,
I just got home from watching Game 5 of the Stanley Cup Final with a bunch of my friends (my GAL for tonight). "My" Blackhawks won 2-1 and are 1 win away from their 3rd Stanley Cup in 6 seasons!
As soon as I got back home, I wanted to see if you replied. And you did! Interesting, my W's parents got divorced when she was about 4 1/2 years old. Hmmm....
Anyway, You are most welcome...always happy to send hugs along to anyone who needs them.
I can't believe how rude your H was. What an uncomfortable situation for you, but I feel you handled it very well.
I am sending positive thoughts your way. Try to keep a PMA. I know, it is not easy, but you can do it. I'm so happy that you feel a little better, so try to keep the train rolling in that direction.
{{{Eirinn}}}
Your friend and fellow DB'er - Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
