Are you listed on the title of the home? If you are a joint owner of the home, then you may have the legal right to return (but really, listen to 10book, see a lawyer. We don't bite. :))
As a general rule, if your spouse no longer wants to be in the marriage, then they should be the one to move out.
Perhaps you could frame this by saying that you only agreed to a 3 month trial separation. Since that time is over, you are moving back.
And what are you afraid of? The death of your marriage? How much worse can it get? Isn't it already over, hasn't she already "fired" you as her husband? But you don't have to do this today. Take some time to think about, get some advice from friends and family.
And please stop berating the board here to answer your questions. It does not look well on you.
It's my sisters home they I rent from her.
I'm afraid of not being successful at winning her back.
I'm sorry. I didn't realize I was berating anyone. I thought this was a place for mutual support and I'm very new to this and am only seeking guidance from those more experienced than I am.
Hi B, are you listed on the Lease of your sister's home? If you are, then you are likely entitled to be there. What does your sister say about your being back in the property?
Yes, fear is one of the hardest things we LBS have to deal with. Can you think of any ways to deal with it?
Ok, "berating" was the wrong word. I'm sorry for using it. But everything you are going through requires patience. Even sometimes receiving responses on this board. Peace.
Hi B, are you listed on the Lease of your sister's home? If you are, then you are likely entitled to be there. What does your sister say about your being back in the property?
Yes, fear is one of the hardest things we LBS have to deal with. Can you think of any ways to deal with it?
Ok, "berating" was the wrong word. I'm sorry for using it. But everything you are going through requires patience. Even sometimes receiving responses on this board. Peace.
Thanks Wet. I'm working on my patience. I have a lot of inner turmoil but am like the duck on the pond: calm and collected on the surface.
Yes my name is on the lease and as far as my sister is concerned yes I have a right to move back in.
However, I think I'm going to hold off. I am seeing some little signs of change in my W even only after 2 weeks. I've thought about it and believe that if I just go home this early in the process of DBing it will push her to take actions.
I'm working on me. She's seeing it. Small improvements matter.
