Gan - and that was my point to H. To let him know that I saw how much he loved me in these little ways, that I did understand - but to communicate how I liked to receive love in days that were significant.

I don't know if it makes a difference that I affirmed tgst, but I am trying to be frank about what I need, too.

Last edited by Zelda09; 03/01/15 01:51 AM.

Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.