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That's a plus, on the half a kg.

Ad I took for a while but the stupid things kept me stuck. Well IMHO they did. Thing started to get better faster without them. Once I had started to use them to sleep and re set me clock.

Maybe I was on the wrong ones.

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Hi vanilla

Not a huge amount to add on advice, I was offered ad by the doc back in July when I was down in the pit I didn't take them as I wanted to see could I work through it, would it have been easier if I had taken them? I don't know, I worried it would shut me down too much but I suspect the right ones wouldn't have but I needed reasons to get off the posterior and go out to occupy my mind not rely on anything else, it doesn't mean anyone else should reject them though only the individual can decide based on advice from the doctor. Sometimes you do need something external to regain balance....mileage will vary

As to your day, we're all with you in spirit even if it would be intimidating if we all crammed in the treatment room with you ;-)


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Especially as your about 6'4 Edz.....

I hope the jaw procedures go well and dont give you too much discomfort.

As for the A/Ds - I can see both sides, you've got a lot going on so it might be better to avoid unnecessary medication but as Maybell said it might make one thing a little easier and right now thats no bad thing

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I'm on ADs. I figure I'll take any help I can get.

Mind you I've forgotten to take them for three days now.


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I'm on ADs, too, and found them to be an amazing help. I'm not one that normally takes meds (usually I prefer to suffer until I absolutely cannot, no matter what the issue is), but I've found them to be a real life saver. I feel more in control of my emotions and better able to cope.

I've been divorced before (2003), and the difference in the spiraling depression of a breakup without and with ADs cannot be denied.

Also, medications don't need to be a long-term solution. You can take them short-term to help you through the worst and stop whenever you feel like it's time.


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