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Re: Old dog seeks new trick 6 [Re: Old Dog] #2528553
01/18/15 09:53 PM
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I'm sorry, this was a rough day for you. You have support here too.

Did you happen to see the thing I wrote about fear being a lighthouse? That seems applicable to the place you're in right now.

Sending you hugs, Not-So Old Dog. Wish things were better for you now, but I know they will be soon.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.
Re: Old dog seeks new trick 6 [Re: Maybell] #2528561
01/18/15 10:24 PM
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Hi Maybell, yes I did see your lighthouse shining brightly in the distance, but then it went out, and then it came on again and it just kept doing it over and over again. I was so confused :-)

My flatmates say I am much more able to withstand these blows now, they have really noticed the difference.

My DB friends, I am so grateful you are here for everyone, not just me. I feel I don't reciprocate the same quality of advice. I wish I was a bit more insightful. I'm working on it though.


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
Re: Old dog seeks new trick 6 [Re: Old Dog] #2528565
01/18/15 10:37 PM
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Hey Old Dog -

Just wanted to send good vibes your way. I'm glad you got through the weekend - and a belated happy birthday to S15!


2 Ds: 7 and 4
BD and Sep: 7/14
Divorce Final 2/16
Re: Old dog seeks new trick 6 [Re: raliced] #2528703
01/19/15 08:09 AM
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mmmm vibes. A friend of mine used to have some vibes: they made a nice sound. Thank you raliced on behalf of S15 and myself.

So tired this morning though, another night when I was awake dreaming up a letter to send to daft lass. It's her birthday on Valentine's Day, so it would be enclosed in a card ... maybe ... if she's lucky enough to get one.

I took my ring off in the night as well, I cant quite remember why now, but I've put it back on.


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
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Good vibes from over here, too, Not So. You're post about Maybell's lighthouse made me laugh out loud!

It's good to read that your flatmates are there for you. We're here too of course, but its nice to interact with more than a computer screen once in a while.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014
Re: Old dog seeks new trick 6 [Re: gan] #2528720
01/19/15 11:22 AM
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I'm glad you got a laugh out of that ganb8te :-)

I've been listening to a podcast featuring Dr Robert Glover, the author of 'No More Mr Nice Guy'. I read the book a while ago after you recommended it Maybell, but I'd forgotten just how accurate, and therefore depressing it is.

Oh well, at least I know I am my own worst enemy and can begin to address some of the issues.

Last edited by Old Dog; 01/19/15 11:24 AM. Reason: Just for the hell if it

M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
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