Sent a message on FB to tell her I'd like a hug if she is comfortable with that and if not that's fine as well.
OMG!
And yet.....it got worse
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There was no response. I couldn't leave well enough alone. So I asked her: "so that is a no to my message, I assume?"
......and worse
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I said that perhaps I wasn't the man she wanted anymore, but that wasn't my decision. I said maybe she'd found someone else and was involved with someone online emotionally, that I didn't think so, but that it was something that I had feared/ considered.
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I said I'd leave her alone and not bug her for answers, that she needs to come to that on her own without me in her face about it.
Yeah, it is the LBH's lapse of judgment that can really push away the WAW. It will help your judgment if you can just stick to what DB says not to do.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
