Great list and a great point at the end of it. At first glance this place looks like hell, and yes most of us are going through it, but most are taking the opportunity and growing from it. And some of our lucky WAS's do choose to recommit. There are lots of success stories over the years if you look back. I think of DB.com like an emergency room for M's. Most people here are either in the midst of trauma, or they are a nurse/doctor (vets). If you reconcile your M, you probably won't spend much time here anymore.

I'm happy for you for identifying and working on your issues. I pray that you get a chance at 2nd M with your WAW someday, but it's clear you'll be okay if you don't.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23