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Pilot, thanks for encouragement.I have seen w a total of 20 min.today. taking kids for cookout. I asked w if she wanted to talk,180 for me. So we see how it go's no expectations. Going to keep my mouth shut and listen and validate


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Just catching up now. So how did the talk go? I will tell you that her confusion will come through her voice. Just validate her feelings and say that you will not stop her from doing what she wants to, but you have to do what you feel is right for you and the kids. Then leave it at that.

Let her rack her brain as to what that means. The more confusion she has the better.


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Pilot, went well we're going on a 2nd honeymoon today. Just kidding! Did not have the talk last night. I got home with kids from cookout w kids and checked in with w who was in her room working on her lesson plan. She seemed stressed and focused on her task. So I got the kids a bath, to bed. Went to bed myself. I have to go out of town for a funeral tomorrow. Not sure I will talk about summons with her, I will listen and discuss other ideas in lieu of D. PILOT, have you set up DB coach. There booked out a week or 2. Good luck with that.


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