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Wow, what a turnaround! I hope she reclaims her faith, that might help her. That was a touching moment, you hanging the cross on her neck.

At this time I would be full of hope and expectations, and then devastated when she pulls away again, because that seems like the cycle, right? Dance forward, dance back, come in for a closeup, and then pull back. Throw out hope, and then run away.

This should be a cautious time, I think. I am rooting for you to stay as detached as possible. And congrats on the raise!


M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R
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From your posts, I know that you are trying to use the methods from Divorce Busting, in addition to the advice from others. However, once again I am suggesting that you speak to a Divorce Busting Coach to help you make sense of your most recent encounter. Please call me to discuss our Coaching program.
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CaliGuy- so many encouraging signs. You have had to really be patient to get this far. Sending good vibes for continued progress.


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou



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