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The whole story Bond its too long and not worth it to talk anymore about it, thats why I dont go into details. But I am sure this relationship has put me in a better place for whatever comes next.


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"Bond unfortunatelly it was an abussive relationship, she its not worst of better for that, she just had a problem and I was in the middle of that so no matter what I could not help her with that issue."

No it wasn't an abusive relationship. You seem to have forgotten how detailed you explained everything before. In fact, you also said...

" I had problems at my job, I though nobody liked me and actually hated me, so my response was to give attitude, I always had the need to respond back and could not take criticism or orders from authority figures, my day at work was miserable everyday and I tought it was the job.... It wasnt, it was me"

This is the same issue with your W. It was more than just the lying to your W that was the issue. That's the part you don't seem to understand.

I have a feeling that it will come up again in your next relationship.


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Thanks for your support. You are not the first person who though I wasnt abussed wink


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