Michele; My wife is having an EA and says she wants to work on our marriage but does not seem to want to end the A. I've been trying to follow your suggestions for when he/she does not want to end the affair, including the "Last Resort". One problem, though, is that I cannot bring myself to stop saying "I love you" or having sex (which she's wanted more now that before), and really, I think in many ways we've both begun to change the many problems our marriage had. Any suggestions for a "modified" or "hybrid" Last Resort? / or other way(s) of dealing with her not wanting to end the affair?
