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#77988 - 09/26/02 05:54 AM More on telephone consultations
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Registered: 01/21/99
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Divorce Busting Telephone Coaching

Many people have a hard time finding a counselor who both believes in the sanctity of marriage and who is skilled at helping people find solutions rather than just talk endlessly about problems. If this is true for you, or if you would just prefer the confidentiality or convenience of a telephone consultation with a Divorce Busting Coach, now's a good time to pick up your telephone and call our Center.

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Here is everything you need to know about Divorce Busting Coaching

To schedule an appointment using your Visa or Master Card, you can call 800-664-2435 or 303-444-7004 or email virginia@divorcebusting.com




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#77989 - 03/23/01 04:09 PM Re: More on telephone consultations
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This is from Betty********Michele, I just wanted to add my experience with my coach. I was in a moment of indecision about my H. I had discovered my H had been to a motel down the street from where we live and I didn't know whether to confront him or not. My coach really helped put things in perspective for me. He helped pull what I really wanted to happen for me and my marriage out of a ball of emotions. It was what I needed to help put me back on track when I could have easily reacted in the emotion of the moment.;

I go to my own therapist but where I live, there are no solution-oriented therapists. I needed to hear from someone who understood the specific DB'ing path I was on - someone who I believe understands the importance of saving yourself to save your marriage. I told him my goals, where I was in terms of working on me and what my issue was that I couldn't get a handle on. He gave me suggestions and perspective.

I highly recommend it to anyone needing help focusing.

So thank you for providing this service and thank you to my coach for being there for me.

Betty
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#77990 - 12/05/01 07:29 PM Re: More on telephone consultations
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Registered: 11/08/01
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I just had a telephone consultation with Vernetta and it went really well! She was very helpful in helping me to list my goals for my marriage, and pointed out some things that I was doing right and pointed me in the right direction on how to "divorce bust" where I had previously been 'pursuing' before. Thanks Vernetta!
Judie

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#77991 - 02/03/02 05:32 AM Re: More on telephone consultations
Virginia Offline

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Registered: 08/13/99
Posts: 694
Loc: Divorce Busting Center USA
This from Jessie
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Vernetta,
Thank you for your time yesterday. You are a lifesaver! Everything you said really hit home, especially about the "circle dance"...my checking up on him, him getting defensive, my checking up on him because he's defensive...losing battle. It has been hard, but I have stopped checking up on him and already started on the steps you recommended to work on "me"....
My family and some friends have doubts as to why I would want to stay with a husband who has cheated on me, but the alternative (divorce) would make me far more unhappy than the struggle and the pain to work through this and
come out on the other side. Thank you for confirming what I know I need to do to make it work, even when other opinions abound.

I wish you many blessings...you certainly have been one to me.

Best,
Jessie

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#77992 - 02/26/02 03:19 PM Re: More on telephone consultations
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This from RHank -

"I had a phone consultation with Vernetta a couple of days ago and it was great. She had lots of good suggestions. My wife responded well to the things Vernetta told me to say. I would highly recommend her. I'm planning on doing another consultation next week. I can't say whether she'd work for you, but I'm sold on her. It's worth the money.
Hank"
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#77993 - 02/28/02 04:33 PM Re: More on telephone consultations
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Posts: 694
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This from a woman who saved her marriage...

Hello,

I just wanted to let you know how helpful my phone consults with my DB Coach have been. I called her on two occasions. Little did I know that the advice she gave me would come in so handy.

My husband and I had been separated for seven months and he had filed for divorce. We have three children who are 6, 3 and 2 years old. After reading Divorce Busting and consulting with my coach, I started to treat my husband as a friend. I sent him cards, flowers, interesting newspaper articles and I invited him over for family dinner on Wednesdays. He told me how much he liked the new "me" and he was sad that it took filing for divorce for us to become friends again.

With my coach's encouragement I asked him out. I got a sitter and we went out to dinner and had a great time. After we came home we sat down to watch tv and spend some time together.

The telephone rang and when I answered it, the woman on the other end of the line wanted to talk to my husband. It turned out that he had been having an affair for 6 months and he didn't know how to tell me. Well this was my chance to either save my marriage or go ballistic.

When the phone call ended, my husband and I sat down, and I told him that I did not want this affair to ruin our marriage and our lives. I told him I would forgive him and we could be goal-oriented and find solutions to our problems. He immediately ended the affair with OW and he is committed to working on our marriage.

Well, it has been 3 months and we are still on track. Some days it takes everything I have not to go back to the "old ways," because they feel comfortable, but they do not work. Everyday I read my goal of having a happy and loving marriage that is filled with trust and commitment.

My DB Coach gave me more than I could have asked for. She knew that I wanted to save my marriage and kept me focused on what I had to do. She helped me see the small changes that my husband was making.

The money I have spent on the phone consults have been worth every penny! Anyone who needs a coach to help them stay the course should try it. Help is only a phone call away.

Thank you for all the wonderful work you do.

Best wishes and continued success at Divorce Busting!!!!
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Virginia Peeples
Vice President
The Divorce Busting Center

Transform your marriage with a 1-day or 2-day private intensive session with Michele.

A Divorce Busting Coach can help you save your marriage, even when your spouse wants out.

Email virginia@divorcebusting.com or 303-444-7004 for more information or to get started right away.

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#77994 - 03/08/02 05:15 AM Re: More on telephone consultations
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HELLO THIS IS ACTUALLY TAMA'S STORY-

I just wanted to let you know that things are going well with H and we are working things out [Wink] . I cannot tell you how helpful Arnold was in helping me focus on DBing and sticking with my goal when I thought it was hopeless [Smile] [Smile] .

Arnold had me focus on ME! I needed to take care of myself and do things for me. When H saw what I was doing and that I was happy "Act AS IF" strategy he was curious to find out who this "new" person was [Big Grin] . I became more attractive to H and I liked the person I was becoming.

Thank you for all that you do at Divorce Busters and for truly caring about the sanctity of marriage and family. My three children also thank you.

Tama

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#77995 - 05/07/02 11:08 PM Re: More on telephone consultations *DELETED* *DELETED* *DELETED*
Virginia Offline

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Registered: 08/13/99
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Loc: Divorce Busting Center USA
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#77996 - 07/21/02 10:26 PM Re: More on telephone consultations
Virginia Offline

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Registered: 08/13/99
Posts: 694
Loc: Divorce Busting Center USA
This from Stan T.
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Virgina,

For some time I have wanted to express my appreciation for the work your organization does generally, and for the coaching I have received from Vernetta, specifically.

I have worked with a handful of therapists over the course of my life in both individual and family endeavors. To me, in her dirvorce-busting coaching, Vernetta combines outstanding personality insight with a very goal oriented approach. I believe she has helped position me so that my marriage has the best possible chance of success and I do the most to improve myself regardless of the eventual outcome of my marriage.

I also appreciate that even in her individual coaching with me, she takes a balanced perspective and, when appropriate, helps me identify with the position of other people. Especially in marital crises, it is hard to find people with balance in their perspective. Many people, with the best of intentions, are only going to tell you the things you want to hear. In a gentle and compassionate way, Vernetta also expresses what I might need to hear.

Finally, Vernetta possesses the rarest of all commodities and I am very thankful she offers this: spriritually directed wisdom.

Thank you and all others in your organization, Virginia, for an undertaking the helps both individual people and society at large by standing up for marriage. You not only stand up for marriage, but you give people the tools to make marriage the uplifting and transforming experience it can be for those who will give it a chance.

Very Best,

Stan T.
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Virginia Peeples
Vice President
The Divorce Busting Center

Transform your marriage with a 1-day or 2-day private intensive session with Michele.

A Divorce Busting Coach can help you save your marriage, even when your spouse wants out.

Email virginia@divorcebusting.com or 303-444-7004 for more information or to get started right away.

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#77997 - 03/23/03 04:08 PM Re: More on telephone consultations
Virginia Offline

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Registered: 08/13/99
Posts: 694
Loc: Divorce Busting Center USA
This from CDMW:

Kim, Welcome back and sorry to hear that you still are having troubles.

Our sits are very very very similar. I first thought that H was in a MIL. Then I found out about 2 OWs. And now I beleive H is in a full on sexual addicition. (lots of strip clubs, internet porn, porn magazines and tapes, etc...)

Have you read DR? It is great. For me, I needed to create some goals and STOP persuing H. It was sooo diffcult - and actually still is. I would call him about little things around the house. Which then grew into conversations. Which eventually grew into seeing each other occassionally. Unfortunately now, we had one great day together and I have not heard from him since. I saw him today at a church thing and he bolted before I could say hello. I think he found out i was reading his email. (By the way, that is a cheeseless tunnel spying, learn from my mistakes.)

What also helped me is hanging out here. Posting daily, and reading others threads. I also had a DR coach session. This was EXTRAORDINARILY HELPFUL. I would highly recomend it. Laurie was quick and to the point and gave me a plan.

Hang in there! I will keep you in my prayers.

Chiara

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Virginia Peeples
Vice President
The Divorce Busting Center

Transform your marriage with a 1-day or 2-day private intensive session with Michele.

A Divorce Busting Coach can help you save your marriage, even when your spouse wants out.

Email virginia@divorcebusting.com or 303-444-7004 for more information or to get started right away.

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