zymergy..... i thought i was reading about my own husband! Same scenario but without the baby. I am so lonely for him....for conversation, a meal together, etc. and yet I try to do what you have been doing....act like it's ok, and find ways to keep myself occupied away from him, when he is here. I cannot describe the feelings of rejection. How many men would turn down loving from a woman who was willing? I try to hold his hand and he says he doesn't "feel" like it.