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#455497 - 04/06/05 07:55 PM Successful Men
sgctxok Member Registered: 02/06/01 Posts: 10709	I will try to posts links later.......or try to get JJ to do it because he is the IT bomb!!!! Feel free to post links yourselves!!! Men: Jamesjohn Progress, not Perfection!! Some of JJ's stuff KentS Committed2Him gbon My marriage is still going strong David Also see the forum: Another Divorce Busted Edited by Jamesjohn (08/25/05 10:41 PM) _________________________ sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
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#455498 - 04/07/05 07:51 AM Re: Successful men,
sage Member Registered: 12/12/02 Posts: 4884	KAW (read to the END! This guy knows how to DB!) Get out of jail FREE! Emerald City is Great!, but its still not Kansas.. Look out for the landmines ... KABOOM! Dancing in a minefield... Are the Pieces Really Coming Together? The Thread w/o a Title Moving into the neighborhood - Hi neighbors JUST WHEN I THINK I'M OK,... ************************************************ jethro W is Reading DB and it seems "premature" Subatomic Steps are Better Than None at All! Atomic Bomb Exploded...R Fragments Everywhere! Vacillations of a WAW Come Home Vacillations of a WAW Come Home II Vacillations of a WAW Come Home III Vacillations of a WAW Come Home IV I Think I Have Officially DB'd Guys!!! I think it's time to say farewell...for now... ***************************************************** Sage (fixed links) Edited by Jamesjohn (01/01/09 08:38 PM)
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#455499 - 04/20/05 08:50 AM Re: Successful men,
sgctxok Member Registered: 02/06/01 Posts: 10709	^ btw--didya notice, sage is now a moderator! Edited by Jamesjohn (08/30/06 01:40 PM) _________________________ sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
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#455500 - 05/10/05 07:56 AM Re: Successful men,
sage Member Registered: 12/12/02 Posts: 4884	bump Sage _________________________ Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
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#455501 - 05/16/05 08:05 PM Re: Successful men,
KentS Member Registered: 11/01/00 Posts: 2978 Loc: Illinois, USA	KentS Not all are mine. I think it tells part of the story. Some has been lost in various crashes and the great purge. JJ, Edit as appropriate. My Nightmare A Glimmer of Light, I Think! Kent is Happy Now! Greg & Cliff What About The New Me ? Greg, Daisy is right, I'm really tired Wow! Came home to a letter from W Action Speaks Much Louder Than Words 180's that work, 180's that don't ???? Got My Autographed Copy of DB Today Let's build this topic into a real dynamo! Final C session I think My Autopilot is Broken Don't Get Lost In The Process! A Slow Road To A Happy Ending Resentment and Brick Walls vs Reconcilliation and Boundaries Pray for our Daughter Tonight Expectations! PLanning our 10th Anniversary (updated links) Edited by Jamesjohn (01/01/09 09:14 PM)
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#455502 - 05/18/05 01:19 PM Re: Successful men,
sage Member Registered: 12/12/02 Posts: 4884	_________________________ Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
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#455503 - 07/16/05 03:46 PM Re: Successful men,
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's some threads from Nathan that are definitely worth taking a look through!! I want to get her back! She wants ME to move out? Getting numb or just used to it? Affair, Seperation.. Is there anyone whos recovered? I blew it- called OM's place. Need support Continuing the effort, it's working yes, Yes, YES!! How to approach 1st 'date' PAY DIRT, BABY!!! She's set a date - to come home!!! Well, here I am in Piecing - not sure if I belong I think we're gonna make it!!! Nathan's Story updated links Edited by Jamesjohn (01/03/09 08:14 PM)
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#455504 - 08/22/05 11:21 PM Re: Successful men,
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's some threads from Questioning that will be great for you to look through! Helping Wife decide between me and OM, and spying! My W can't decide between me and OM. Do I confront or not , and tell or not? Success - it is possible. _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455505 - 08/24/05 02:01 PM Re: Successful men,
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Looks like Optimust has done pretty well, and in a short amount of time, too!! Oh,,,,, the pain! Separated 03/15, want your thots, so I won't slip (Lots of great input from DB Coach Laurie on this thread!) W doesn't know I know about A? Do I ask? Lets get psycho,,,,define your MLC and/or WAS We're getting back together! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455506 - 08/24/05 03:48 PM Re: Successful men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's the story of a gent who was formerly "Frustrated"! Questions: I need help/love/support/advice..... Oh my god! What to Say to Show Support? How do you deal with feelings of "unfulfillment"? She told me she loved me! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455507 - 08/25/05 10:36 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's the tale of MrMom! (Wasn't that a movie?!) Allow me to introduce myself... Quick DB question... Please help me to stop backsliding Wife is moving out... Remember me??? A DB Success story! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455508 - 09/09/05 03:52 PM Re: Successful Men
Nevanna Member Registered: 03/12/04 Posts: 1375	Mak_ was also a success. Yes indeed! And here it is!!!!..... 180 or LRT? Focusing on positives Focusing on positives - Part II Focusing on positives - Part III Still focusing on positives Edited by Jamesjohn (10/07/05 09:57 PM) _________________________ [color:"purple"]Nevanna[/color]
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#455509 - 09/15/05 05:14 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Be sure to check out what cliff has to say! Help! Who knows what to do? Walkaway warming up fast!! Help! My spouse is acting terribly weird!! Alien abductions. . . What a lift! To those of you whose hearts are breaking on Valentine's Day Cliff's questions and answers Cliff's Sanity Bay More of Cliff's Questions and Answers Cliffy's little thoughts on affairs . . . updated links
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#455510 - 09/27/05 11:53 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's some of BASIL's story!! Does this make any sense? Don't know what to expect Doin' Great!! MARRIAGE IS WONDERFUL!!! updated links
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#455511 - 09/27/05 12:25 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's some of ChrisJ's tale! Need advice **FAST** End of Speration ... a few thoughts Time to move to hopefulness Hopeful but concerned Change in the climate I can see the head Onwards and Upwards My Last Post.... My first post......... Breaking Through??? We have broken through! Have faith in yourself My first to my Last Newcomers Beware updated links Edited by Jamesjohn (01/03/09 09:02 PM)
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#455512 - 09/27/05 12:53 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's Chop's story.... Partial succes - very early Prepared Speech I need a slap!!!! I think I'm turning into a WAH She goes out to forget. Looming vacation - how to handle? Self Fullfilling prophecy _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455513 - 09/27/05 01:27 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here are some threads from mg460! Help! Should we change counselors? I NEED SOME WORDS OF WISDOM. Luck w/ contolled separation- part 2 Luck w/ controlled separation part 3 DB + controlled separation success! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455514 - 10/02/05 07:35 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's BillM's great story! 1st time poster looking for feedback My snazzy new thread Visions of the future Positive Mental Attitude There Are Parts Left Over DBing as a lifestyle _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455515 - 10/10/05 12:37 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's a couple of threads from csbell! A broken Heart, a defeated soul This Stuff Works....It just takes time (and patience) _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455516 - 10/13/05 05:12 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's TLR! WAW need some advise WAW is home!!!!!!!!!!!!!! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455517 - 10/20/05 10:45 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's the story of Mountie! Open the pod bay doors Hal... One Last Gasp She's back. _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455518 - 10/20/05 11:00 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Heeeerrrrre's Johnny R!!!! New to this Heartbreak Going to the Mattresses Hanging on in Quiet Desparation is the English Way End of the Beginning or Beginning of the End? Time to call a halt?? Desparate for advice - Reconciliation blowing up Is there such a thing as "Loving Detachment?" My Wife has come Home!!! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455519 - 11/05/05 03:02 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's a thread from ByMyself! Trying this again, She's gone I need help _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455520 - 11/12/05 04:30 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Here's WAWfighter's threads so far! Unfaithful wife Unfaithful Wife-II _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455521 - 03/22/06 11:32 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Looks like it's time to add COG to the list here!! To eavesdrop or not to eavesdrop? My 180 found some success! I could use a little encouragement! Input please! Running out of steam! Separated Three Years but NOT Counting Separated Three Years But Not Counting2 Separated 3 Years - Divorce Busted! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455522 - 04/11/06 11:43 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	From OneCanChange! Confused--Separated Sex The Serious Talk Am I Crazy? Is this Normal? EA: When should I stop accepting OM in my life?? Einstein, Aria and Timeowt WAW Comes Home--Update HELP! DO I BECOME A WAH?? WAW BRINGS OM BACK TO LIFE! OneCanChange--but it takes TwoToTango in the dance of reconciliation--NEW THREAD OneCanChange with Patience, Love, Respect and Determination. OneCanChange, but Mrs. OneCanChange Cannot--about to become a WAH Return of OM, Part IV. How to handle??? OneCanChange: Success Report from the Trenches _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455523 - 04/11/06 01:43 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	And novix! Is there hope for me Is it friendship or a start _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455524 - 05/29/06 09:43 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	53John Classic WAW - Seeing some positive reaction to Dbing Shoud I talk to her about it or should I wait? Hugs Is it time for LRT? Starting to slowly reconcile OM shows his ugly face again _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455525 - 05/29/06 09:50 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	BC34 Potential WAW - Need help fast _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455526 - 05/30/06 07:18 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	JohnK Where to go from here??? Results tooooo soon!?!?! Going in the right direction... hopefully _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455527 - 05/30/06 07:41 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	TonyOde Here we (I) go again.... BUSTED!! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455528 - 06/01/06 11:30 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Indy36 New Here - Where to start? Success!!! After the bust...... _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455529 - 06/03/06 03:40 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Zebra Bring affair to light of day? She's hired a lawyer, says I need on too. WAW agreed to try to reconcile.... She said she'll try to work on the marriage... Zebra's old thread... thoughts and reflections about detachment... It's time to start dating again.... _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455530 - 06/03/06 04:11 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	KAW Get out of jail FREE! Emerald City is Great!, but its still not Kansas.. Look out for the landmines ... KABOOM! Dancing in a minefield... Are the Pieces Really Coming Together? The Thread w/o a Title Back to Basics JUST WHEN I THINK I'M OK,... _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455531 - 08/08/06 12:32 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	caldrake Wife of 7 years -- Gone 7 weeks now... Separated 2 months, help!! Turnaround, or just keeping a string tied??? Patience pays off! WAW is back; Love in the air! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455532 - 08/18/06 12:57 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Lars (The first threads from Lars are missing, but there's still some great inspiration here!! Slowly Progressing, but Being Patient Praise God, thanks to Michelle and You!!!!!!!! updated links Edited by Jamesjohn (01/03/09 08:38 PM)
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#455533 - 08/21/06 05:25 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Bryan Progress, Real or Imagined?? Entering A New Phase Staying Mentally Fit When Physically Failing Back On Course The Mountain Has Moved!!!!!!!! updated links Edited by Jamesjohn (01/03/09 08:24 PM)
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#455534 - 08/22/06 01:32 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	jeff122000 a letter from the wife letter from wife... please help understand giving her space Fed Up with the BS need someone to help....WAW last resort technique HOT LRT results fast - need advice! Cheers!!...but...... Judgement Day YES!! AND IT COUNTS!!!!! We are making strides....DBing works...... updated links Edited by Jamesjohn (01/03/09 08:32 PM)
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#455535 - 08/23/06 11:54 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	hey_chrisw Help! she's moving faster than I can read... Basics? or am I missing the boat..... 180/"as if" doing harm? So what's w/ all the anger? any help in this area will be greatly appreciated Success Story, not so sure yet? _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455536 - 08/28/06 01:22 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	mike101 Am I doing the right thing? Words of Support Hopefully On The Right Track A Different State of Mind Why Did It Take Me So Long--I Hope Its Not To Late Help I need some input quick!!!!!! Am I Ready For This Place Yet?? A Very Big Thanks To All _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455537 - 08/29/06 11:58 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	ByteEnable Mine is almost a walkaway How do u really overcome jealousy/trustworthy Going forward with new relationship _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455538 - 08/29/06 05:58 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	cruiserrg New and in need of support When WAs Come Home (Where do we go from here?) Things starting in right direction, NEED TIPS! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455539 - 08/30/06 12:28 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	euanjames Is this piecing?? Questions need answering! Anyone elses WAW exhibited this behaviour? Piecing cranks up a BIG notch... Evan screams IVE DONE IT!!! She's coming back!! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455540 - 08/30/06 01:02 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	farfromhome The Confusion Continues The End Is Close Always Look On The Bright Side Of Life Stuk In Limbo but still looking at the bright side Life Must Move On Truth is stranger then fiction Second Chance Advice Please Hello and Update _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455541 - 09/01/06 04:05 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	hurtinbad1 Any help or advice, can this be saved ???? Anyone got some good advice for me ...Plz Update on old post..any help here???? Hell and back or still there... Cant even think straight any more... How would you take this if W or H said this??? Now what do I do , any advice? Got W back (sorta) , Dont know if want W anymore UHH OHH I THINK I DROPPED THE BALL Once in a life time , hopefully Got wife back , not sure if want it any more =[ Happy day's seem to be near..... =] One year after , Db'ing started...=] This stuff really works. Update on old post... Just stoppin in to say hi , and update... _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455542 - 09/03/06 01:24 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Hurting Jim (now Happy Jim!!!!!) DYING INSIDE Still Dying Inside Still Dying Inside and now even more confusion Almost dead inside....Still dying inside continued Confused again......I've returned Someone please clarify this for me Another Success Story thanks to Michele _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455543 - 09/04/06 12:32 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	LoneStarFree I need advice Last night was a good night. Did I do this right? My heart is beating about a mile a minute Something big happened last night, I think. I should be here, not piecing. Second chance at love and life. Taking it slow, but making steady progress. Gettin it done, enjoying our NEW marriage. _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455544 - 09/04/06 02:17 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Lumpy Newcommer w/WAW One doing the work for two - will it work????? Back to Step 1 - Unfortunately Headed in the right direction! Both focused on the same goals! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455545 - 09/04/06 03:06 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	matt strasser not knowing what to do soooo scared need help on LRT W not leaving wants to work it out!!!!!! W started C, thought she wanted to work on R, now not sure. Some hopeful words New kid on the piecing our M bb YEEHAW!!!!!!!!!!!!! DBing, after saving my M Marriage Saved!!!! How to make it better??? _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455546 - 09/06/06 04:36 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	pbrown HELP!!!!! wife filed monday nothings working falling apart need help quick tonight please help! Worried about my wife ON MY WAY TO PIECING???????? GOD saved my marriage,anothe M DB'd _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455547 - 09/07/06 07:22 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	schythe new to DB'ing and thought id post a bit ummm odd situation occurring How to get out of the vicious fighting cycle Possible good news, may end up back together _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455548 - 09/12/06 04:47 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	billk Trying to d.b./happy days are here again _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455549 - 09/14/06 01:50 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	camidaddy Should I Stay or Should I Go? (long...) how to handle anniversary how can you guys stand it? let the games begin REALLY need HELP NOW before doing something stupid!!! am i turning the corner? for all you snoopers out there... For every door that closes... new start today Patience..is it working? patience...it does work! updated links
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#455550 - 11/22/06 06:30 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	va-andy I could really use some advice please New DB'r...some advise please I've got all the time in the world for you...love I've got all the time in the world for you love (part 2) I've got all the time in the world for you love...third verse Improving Your Oats...Or How DBing is All About Working on You _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455551 - 11/25/06 03:19 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	tony b Done something real dumb! any advice Very confused can any one help Did the release thing today had enough and giving up Hi I am back need a little advice May have a breakthough, not sure?, need advice Good News, I am back home and the W is wanting to work things out _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455552 - 11/25/06 03:45 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Todd Advice needed desperately She is coming around(I think) Breakthrough _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455553 - 11/29/06 06:29 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Success This site worked for me! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455554 - 11/30/06 09:08 AM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	stace I was blindsided, and I need help WAW admits to EA - it's hard _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455555 - 12/02/06 08:07 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Hang on for RandyH!! She doesn't know what she wants valentines day Should I Almost done when do the baby steps start I want to ask ? BIG BACKSLIDE Warming up emotional affairs? XW wants me to wait getting back together How to piece it back together Is she using me or just confused piecing after D Piecing after divorce II Piecing after Divorce III updated links
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#455556 - 12/07/06 11:15 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	KLS Separation has started, what do I do? Not sure what to do, is this too much pressure? I think I want to give up??, PLEASE HELP Good news, maybe? Great news! Had to share! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455557 - 12/09/06 12:22 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	kcox moving out today moving out or moving on Wife seems to be responding to changes Back Again _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#455558 - 12/09/06 01:04 PM Re: Successful Men
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	K22 Seperated, Filed, but not by choice!?! Please HELP Time is Running OUT!!! Need response from WOMEN PLEASE!!! Need some WOMEN'S opinions PLEASE!!! Need help with WAW in MLC! some changes to report -- GOOD OR BAD? _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#982534 - 03/21/07 04:38 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: sgctxok]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	jeffrey26 Emotional Affair _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#987713 - 03/25/07 12:49 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	SPITFIRE two and a half months in I'm from earth I come in peace Alien or Angel would the real W please stand up! Alien finally recalled to mothership? _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#987718 - 03/25/07 01:32 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	sam908 Can I successfully DB while MLW is living at home? Confrontation yesterday: W and I, OM and W W goes into mourning every weekend W still contacting OM while piecing _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#987743 - 03/25/07 04:17 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	euanjames Is this piecing?? Questions need answering! Anyone elses WAW exhibited this behaviour? Piecing cranks up a BIG notch... Evan screams IVE DONE IT!!! She's coming back!! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#987752 - 03/25/07 05:49 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	dk Re: ...recently became a member of the WAW club, part2 ...recently became a member of the WAW club, part3 soon to be a member of the divorcee club...maybe not! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#988478 - 03/26/07 04:42 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	kistell hi all need some advise. going dark has worked and im so happy. _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1001704 - 04/05/07 01:55 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	mdmiller What can I do? Newbie would like some advice please. Newbie would like some advice please part 2 WAW wants to try Nwlap 3, not so new anymore _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1002078 - 04/05/07 05:17 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	xalelle First Post by Newcomer X starts DBing From The Beginning X's DB Journey pt 3 X's DBing Journey pt 4 - Turning Point X's DBing Journey pt 5 - waiting and watching X's DBing Journey pt 6 - Getting On With Life X's DBing Journey pt 7 - Finding a Place of My Own X is trying to find the horse X is still DBing X is still DBing, maby Counseling? X Still DBing.. and Piecing? X's DBing On The Move _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1004318 - 04/07/07 04:50 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	jstx She's Gone but Says She Doesn't Want a Divorce Better and Stronger in the Long Run Better and Stronger in the Long Run...II Better and Stronger in the Long Run...III Better and Stronger in the Long Run...IV Better and Stronger in the Long Run...V Better and Stronger in the Long Run...VI Better and Stronger in the Long Run...VII Better and Stronger in the Long Run VIII Better and Stronger in the Long Run IX Better and Stronger in the Long Run X Better and Stronger in the Long Run XI Better and Stronger in the Long Run XII Better and Stronger in the Long Run??? XIII A BETTER FRAME OF MIND?????? Don't You Feel Better? You are Piecing and That's the Important Thing!!! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1016473 - 04/17/07 03:03 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	SvenTheRed Give me the strength! How you deal with it! Give me the strenght - Part II Give me the strength - Part 3 Give me the Strength - Part 4 Give me the strength - Part 5 Give me the Strength - Part 6 - A New Hope Give me the Strength - Part 7 Trying to Build it Better and Stronger Finding the Right Zone _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1038283 - 05/02/07 09:03 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	CHRISG I AM AS LOST AS ANYONE CAN BE NOT AS LOST AS I WAS I WAS LOST BUT NOW I CAN SEE THE ROAD I AM ON THE ROAD AND LIFE IS GOOD _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1039936 - 05/03/07 08:01 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Optimust Oh,,,,, the pain! Separated 03/15, want your thots, so I won't slip W doesn't know I know about A? Do I ask? Lets get psycho,,,,define your MLC and/or WAS We're getting back together! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1039978 - 05/03/07 08:41 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	HeartFeltOne Fighting the Good Fight Starting Over Doing it right, this time _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1042101 - 05/06/07 01:38 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	MrMom Allow me to introduce myself... Quick DB question... Please help me to stop backsliding Wife is moving out... Remember me??? A DB Success story! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1080158 - 06/02/07 04:19 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Chris_in_VA New here, hello. Reconciliation in Richmond _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1231016 - 10/15/07 03:17 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	JAG_06 Admiring My W and Evolving My Odyssy Continues The Road Goes On Forever and The Party Never Ends My almost 1yr Annivesary (Success!) _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1310727 - 12/29/07 12:21 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	stlslim Wife walked out 2 Weeks ago........Need help!! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1312502 - 12/31/07 12:15 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	marinheiro I don't know what to make of this, please help. Is the pain ever going go away? Need advise Need more advice please I hurt bad What does this mean? More Drama Worst day of my life Friendly W. what a great day I give up Don't assume? ANother Divorce busted? Maybe Confirmed : Another Divorce Busted happy happy happy Another Divorce busted part 2 _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1312866 - 12/31/07 05:07 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	ezoliver Need help bringing my wife back... _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1319434 - 01/06/08 05:43 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
strange Member Registered: 06/04/07 Posts: 248	I'm bumping this because, did'nt this thread used to be a sticky? _________________________ first thread Current thread
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#1382000 - 03/09/08 01:33 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
jstx Member Registered: 11/27/02 Posts: 1759 Loc: Back in Texas Thank God!	I'm on this list? Must be a mistake. Lord knows I kind of sucked at the whole process. The only think I could really take to heart out of Michele's books was that if you fell off the horse, get back on and try it again. Persistence does pay off. Well, if it can help anyone else, feel free to read this mess. I will say that the people on here helped me through a very bad time in my life. Good Luck! _________________________ jstx
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#1415545 - 04/12/08 09:57 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: jstx]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Tigerbuck Do I ask W what I want _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1427998 - 04/27/08 11:27 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	AllByMyself New to DB and need someone to tell What to do, what to do??? ABM tries to GAL! ABM - Realizes W May Be Gone For Good ABM - New Thread - I have succeeded and failed _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1428005 - 04/27/08 11:37 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	nativeImage Seperated and hurting need answers _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1489456 - 06/21/08 08:39 AM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Yo2003 Confusing _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1505962 - 07/05/08 12:27 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Indy36 New Here - Where to start? Success!!! After the bust...... _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1687029 - 01/04/09 03:05 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	jamespb75 need some advice new to site at my wits end... need a swift kick .......... did the LRT and it's working!! got the news she wants to be with OM starting the long journey LIST OF POSITIVES holding on to whatever I can I'm back just to say all is well so far _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1687036 - 01/04/09 03:22 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	blueMan My Story... yes i am in the middle of battlefield Middle of battelfield No. It's peace time. Thanks! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1687051 - 01/04/09 03:43 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	renegade If this is progress, why do I feel like crap?!? A question for you experienced DB'ers Staying positive for my marriage Detaching, but optimistic about the future A Fairytale Ending Advice sought from experienced "Piecers" _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#1687256 - 01/04/09 10:28 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Diehard well here I go first post Its all over but the crying Spending lots of time while separated. Diehard's divorce is busted! _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#2320259 - 02/05/13 05:02 PM Re: Successful Men [Re: Jamesjohn]
Cadet Member Registered: 11/24/09 Posts: 3948	There have been some people complaining that not all the links work on these threads You may be able to find some of the ones that do not work with the following method. It is what I use to find people here on DB. How to find a user on DB Go up to MY STUFF Click on Watch List Click on Watched Users Click on Edit Watched Users Click on Add a user to list Type in user - "Never Give UP" Select her as a watched user. Click on her name Click on show all posts. Click on Topics If someone would like to take the time to redo all of these stories like I did on the MLC board I am sure it would be appreciated. Hope that helps. _________________________ Me-59, D26,S25
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