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#429440 - 02/18/05 11:11 AM What does going "dark" mean??
wonderwoman Junior Member Registered: 01/26/05 Posts: 7	Hi All, I see many posts referring to people going dark... and I've tried to find information on this but I'm still not sure what exactly that means... Can someone help me understand what going "dark" means?? What is done when one goes "dark"? And when should this be done ... under what circumstances should one go "dark"? Thanks! Wonderwoman
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#429441 - 02/18/05 12:01 PM Re: What does going "dark" mean??
MnSPD Member Registered: 03/02/04 Posts: 1283 Loc: N. MN	WW, Going dark means to limit all but essential contact. ie, kids, finances, legal matters. It is a tactic which allows you to provide the space they need and let them miss you. The absence of you, may begin to make them think about you and what you are doing. Steve
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#429442 - 02/19/05 10:29 AM Re: What does going "dark" mean??
TAGIII Member Registered: 10/08/04 Posts: 1180 Loc: Singapore	Dark is where I am right now and I don't see, hear, or feel a darn thing happening! _________________________ “I’ve learned what I know from defeats.” Bobby Jones
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#429443 - 02/20/05 07:30 AM Re: What does going "dark" mean??
KRB Member Registered: 01/21/05 Posts: 192	Can you go dark and live in the same house with W and D2? If so how?
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#429444 - 02/20/05 01:17 PM Re: What does going "dark" mean??
TAGIII Member Registered: 10/08/04 Posts: 1180 Loc: Singapore	Beats me. That's what doesn't make sense to when NOPKins says move back to California. If you in the same house how could you go dark? I guess take D2 and continue to go to family, movies, etc.? _________________________ “I’ve learned what I know from defeats.” Bobby Jones
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#429445 - 02/20/05 02:03 PM Re: What does going "dark" mean??
Jamesjohn Moderator Registered: 11/21/00 Posts: 8334 Loc: The GREAT Pacific Northwest	Hi wonderwoman! "Going dark" means many different things, to many different people, and every different situation. If you haven't already, take a look through the thread linked below, and see if you find anything in there that might help! "Going Dark" - 101 _________________________ JJ Read about Divorce Busting® Telephone Coaching here!
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#429446 - 02/20/05 02:04 PM Re: What does going "dark" mean??
TAGIII Member Registered: 10/08/04 Posts: 1180 Loc: Singapore	JJ, Just printed it. I'll read it tonight. _________________________ “I’ve learned what I know from defeats.” Bobby Jones
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#429447 - 02/20/05 03:05 PM Re: What does going "dark" mean??
wonderwoman Junior Member Registered: 01/26/05 Posts: 7	JJ... Wow... Thanks... this does help...
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