I’m with you Louise14, in the “not in love with you boat”. You almost want to smack them about the head and say why can’t you see what we could have, better than before, learn together, enjoy life...we picked each other at one point, so what’s the bloody problem now! My sitch is different to yours but I’ve suffered a miscarriage too, so when I say my heart hurts for you, please know it’s true! I can see how hard this is going to be for both of us so even if it’s just a total rant to get it out, il look for it and vent with you! Girlies got to stick together eh! Big hugs.
Definitely Toto11...It is a very hard place... Especially since the person they are now is a horrible person... I know they become the ''opposite'' and I am doing my best to do a 180... and I have definitely improved... I just find it hard to think of him being with someone else and his only validation is ''we are not together anymore''... No compassion and certainly no remorse..YET!!
