That’s pretty open ended and makes her have to check in to see if you made a decision.
Clear concise communication in this world
“ I am unsure. I will know by so and so date and let you know my decision”
Reduces chasing and wondering. It almost seems like a little game playing.
In all sincereity: the right thing to do that makes logical sense is not wait until she hunts you down for it when she doesn’t even know if you made a decision. That makes it look more like you want her to chase you. Just tell her your decision when you’ve made one. It’s the adult thing to do. And one that is made of clear and concise communication without games . Make that choice for you, not her.
Good! See? Done. No wondering. You made a decision, you worked it out and nothing to even think about anymore. It’s over and done. Keep it simple, just like that!
very interesting new development. Apparently there is an OM number two unbeknownst to om number one. Also the quote on quote wedding that I'm babysitting for in 2 weeks does not exist. That's just what I was told to get me to babysit. S4 told me today about how he spent his weekend with a different om and that he has met him a few times. The alleged wedding is in the same area where o m number two lips. I also looked in the area and there is no weddings listed. I'm curious what she told om number one about whatever she's doing that weekend LOL. S4 told me he was told to keep it a secret that he spent his weekend with om number two. The temptation to inform om number one about all of this is quite tempting but technically is not my business and wouldn't do me any good. funny I almost feel bad for o m number one because I know what's coming for him
M: 35, EX-W: 3, S:4 All Divorce Proceedings Complete - Oct 18 ----------------------------------------------------- 2nd EX - Was Engaged - Diagnosed BPD 2 Major breakups. 2 Rebounds
