Lol L.....well she just left my house and I thought about suggesting but decided it probably wasnt in my best interest.
It is actually really crazy to be with someone that enjoys sex and gets pleasure from it. I will see her again on Sunday night.
On a side note I will be spending Easter with my girls, my xw and our family friends. This will be the first time we have been together as a family, with mutual friends, in a large group setting like this. Outside of our kids birthdays. I feel good about it and think I have healed enough and moved on that it wont be impactful emotionally. Not sure if her boyfriend will be there or not but I think I will be ok. If I get there and think I bit off more than I can chew I will just leave They are having a big Easter egg hunt and brunch. The more I thought about it I just didnt want to miss spending time with friends and my girls.
The first family encounter I had with XH after our D was final was nearly a year after the D at our grandkid's birthday party. It was hard, but I got through it and I know you will too. If it is any comfort, it does get easier. The first one was definitely the hardest. I think it is great that you are putting the girls first and not missing out on this fun activity with them. I know your kids are still young, but I don't think we can ever underestimate the influence we have on kids and seeing you and their mom behave like mature adults and come together for their sake will go along way to making sure your girls have a solid foundation for good relationships later.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
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