Anyways. Yup, she was probably really busy at work and was able to answer you when her day was done. If she was seeing patients all day, she can’t be on her phone.
Bahaaa.....how to be a 3% women by G love!!! She said she is available on Saturday night so the date is confirmed for 8 pm by me at a local, high end Mexican restaurant. I like this one as she is not blowing up my phone and doesn’t seem to be into texting.
1 to 2 days max seems like a good range. It is also probably good to mix it up some as well. We are going to meet at the restaurant on Sat night. I didnt want to get into all the logistics of do you want me to pick you up etc. I am assuming here but since she is a dr and obviously a public figure in the community it may take her a bit to get more comfortable and she might be a little more cautious. Anyway crap in my town shuts down at 11 so at minimum we will have 3 hours together unless I am feeling the vibe and invite her back to my place. We shut the place down on our first date and they turned the lights on us I didnt even realize we had been their two hours and when I looked around the bar was clear and we were the last ones.
J this is great news. I work in healthcare. Doctors are busy people.
I think the bottom line is if a woman really likes you it doesn't matter. 5 is probably too long. The next day you run the risk of her thinking you are needy. 2-3 sounds like the right amount of time.
Thank L. True to an extent everyone does. If things go well on Saturday I would then probably wait until Monday to hit her up again. When she texted back last night she said she had Sat open and maybe next week some time. Since I don't have my girls this week and was open on Saturday night I just took that timeslot and made a definite date. I originally said 7 pm and then she asked if we could push it back until 7:30 since she was coming back from being out of town. I then said there is no rush how about 8 and she agreed.
I think if you just send 1 text with your intentions that is fine. Obviously you still follow the rules and treat it like tennis and you wait until she hits the ball back. But that text alone IMO doesn't come across as needy. If you send that text, don't wait (send multiple when she doesn't respond), and in combination send her a good morning text or a good night text, and then try to hit her up during the day then the combination of those things will definitely not get you a second date.
With her I sent the text and did nothing else. I have not reached out to her in any other capacity other than to make a date and once the date was set I got off the phone.
Hey Dawn, Juju, and KML, want to coauthor a book with me on how a woman really wants to be treated and courted?
I'm in! And I happen to have my writer hat on at the moment because I'm working on my gardening magazine article.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
