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Originally Posted by AnotherStander
I feel sorry for Jill's H, because I suspect it's only a matter of time before she goes wayward again. Some women go through a wayward phase and others are just wired that way from day one. I think she's the latter, a serial cheater.


AS. just curiouse about what in this story makes you say that?


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I was thinking what AS was thinking. She leaves H for AP. Leaves AP for H. Then goes back to have sex with AP while being comitted (again) to H. That is a bit messed up, isn't it?


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Could it be that she has feelings for both? To me serial cheaters are those that are always on the look out for the next OM.


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All I know is that she was still contacting Jack up to 2 months ago. Jack says she doesn't look happy, but he doesn't love her anymore. He has a new GF, feels there is no stress and the relationship with his new GF is much more relaxed and "I don't have to look over my shoulder anymore".

I don't know what boundaries BH but down, maybe very little. Maybe he took her back with very little questions. 2 years away from his WW, he took her back.

Timeline of this.

WW (Jill) and BH get married 2012 - > Dating 7 years
WW meets Jack AP through work 2012-2013. (Flirting with each other and messages)
Jack kisses Jill first time May 2013
Jack moves to another country in May 2013
Jack Moves back home June 2013
Jill moves out from BH and Moves in with Jack June/July 2013
Jill leaves random weekend back to BH July 2013
Jill moves back with Jack July 2013

Jill leaves to her home country for back operation May 2015
Jill tells Jack she isn't returning Sept 2015
Jill collects her stuff from Jack's apartment Oct 2015
Jack and Jill have sex for the last time Oct 2015

Jill is pregnant with BH March 2016

Randon contact between 2016- 2018. (But they never saw each other again)

Jack starts a new relationship with new GF in October 2018.

Jill still with BH 2015-2019


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Originally Posted by Manta
All I know is that she was still contacting Jack up to 2 months ago. Jack says she doesn't look happy, but he doesn't love her anymore. He has a new GF, feels there is no stress and the relationship with his new GF is much more relaxed and "I don't have to look over my shoulder anymore".
So OM becomes WAS and WW becomes LBS. Sheesh.


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I was talking with Jack today. He told me a few things about his XAPWW Jill

1. When himself and Jill were in the affair and finally living with each other, (she moved out from BH apartment directly into Jack's apartment in 24 hours).

2. During the Affair, she would often till Jack, she felt bad about what she did to BH, (i never meant to hurt anyone)

3. About 18 months into the affair, she began saying things to Jack (I miss my family, i miss my home)

4. It was around this time he began to feel "I'm looking over my shoulder again"

5. The relationship was never comfortable with Jill, i never felt secure.

6. I haven't heard from Jill in months. I don't think things will work out with her BH. She is very immature and hasn't worked on herself.

Just thought these things were interesting.


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