Will do, with apologies. Didn't mean to hijack anyone's thread.
We all do it - like a bunch of neighbours gossiping and helping each other out.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
I am grappling with the question most of us struggle with: is this an aberration or is this the new normal? I think most of us who love our spouses would agree that if we new with certainty it was the former, we would wait. The uncertainty is what is most taxing for me.
Lord, yes, that's it in a nutshell. That's the entire dilemma right there.
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
No apologies necessary, but we would like for you to join us, if you so wish.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Wow, Westco, so happy for you. Amazing. You truly sound so peaceful. Have a nice pot o' tea and know that I am sipping one over here and thinking of your happiness. XOXO
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
Wow, just catching up, I always look forward to reading post like this.
It brings hope for my kids. Not even about me. I know they miss W. Hoping and praying oneday They will get their mom back
Thank you for sharing your post with us here Especially us newbies we sometimes need that hope ....
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
Welcome to my story. I’m so glad I bring hope to you and your kids. It is my main motivation to keep posting updates on here.
All I will say is.....YOU will know deep down if your partner is in MLC or is just a WAS. I was a victim of a WAS in my first marriage, literally did WAW and left me with all the bills.
This time it was different. I witnessed the lights going out in H eyes. I’ve said it many times. His soul was sad. It isn’t now.
Hang on in there.....if they are to come back, make it the easiest route for them to do so. If they don’t....then you have nothing reproach yourself for.
But remember in all this, YOU are the most important person in this now. Put yourself on the pedestal and remain there.....always.
