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Sorry for your loss, Steve. Hope everything is going well for you...


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Hang in there buddy...all the best


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Originally Posted by Steve85
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Sorry to hear that Steve! Was it a heart attack? The reason I ask is my ex was just telling me last night that someone she knows died of a heart attack in his sleep a few days ago, if it's the same person then wow, small world!


Hmmm, that sounds very familiar. Can you post his first and last initial?


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Originally Posted by AnotherStander
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Sorry to hear that Steve! Was it a heart attack? The reason I ask is my ex was just telling me last night that someone she knows died of a heart attack in his sleep a few days ago, if it's the same person then wow, small world!


Hmmm, that sounds very familiar. Can you post his first and last initial?


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Nope. But he is the third guy this week including my friend and another guy I know peripherally. that I heard of passing away in his sleep.


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Sorry to hear that Steve! Was it a heart attack? The reason I ask is my ex was just telling me last night that someone she knows died of a heart attack in his sleep a few days ago, if it's the same person then wow, small world!


Hmmm, that sounds very familiar. Can you post his first and last initial?


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Nope. But he is the third guy this week including my friend and another guy I know peripherally. that I heard of passing away in his sleep.


Woah! I think I'll do two workouts today, LOL! And eat a salad for dinner grin And not sleep tonight wink


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When you gotta go, in your sleep seems best. Still very sad for the survivors.


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Originally Posted by RR17
When you gotta go, in your sleep seems best.
If I am going to die of a heart attack, I am hoping to be tied to a bed with my lover on top of me! wink

Otherwise slipping on a rock while fishing sound better....


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Sending you a hug. My thoughts are with you and your friend.

(((Steve)))


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Well I am not going to lie. That was a rough one. I've never lost someone that close to me that suddenly. The entire funeral was really around not getting to properly say goodbye. It was very emotional. His daughter got up and read a poem she wrote. He died on her birthday and he and her had "One Last Piece of Cake". Not a dry eye in the room.

I've been struggling ever since. I haven't slept well the last two nights, lots of dreams about him. I think the weight of some other things (non-marital) are weighing on me. My mom has been sick for a month and a half. Old house still hasn't sold. Just a lot right now.

Coming here and helping others with their sitches has become my therapy! As many of you have voiced, thank God for this forum.

To AS, RR17, R2C, and neffer, thanks guys! Your words of support mean more than you can know.


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