Thanks all....the big 45...half way to the 5th floor! The girls and I are going over to a friends house tonight to celebrate so it should be fun.
I feel better today about letting the other girl go. She was nice, sweet, and I think I really wanted it to work but I didn’t have that excitement in my gut that comes with not seeing someone that often. It felt kind of like I was settling so I think I made the right choice.
I think you gave it some time and you just weren't feeling it, that's fine. But really, don't expect anyone to be moving fast or emotionally invested by the third date. it's kind of a red flag if they are. I do think you want to get to that R point because you feel behind in the race. But you aren't. You are doing it right.
And Dawn, Thank you. I know I really am not a slut. Just an adult woman with needs. And I shouldn't make fun of myself.
Thanks G....I didn't expect that but I expected (inside myself) to feel that desire to rip her clothes off or excitement for the next date. I am fine with her taking her time and not pushing sex but I just felt flat with minimal excitement or lust.
And Dawn, Thank you. I know I really am not a slut. Just an adult woman with needs. And I shouldn't make fun of myself.
Amen, sister!!!!!!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
It was a nice early birthday present!