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I'm not waiting. We are sick so we have been home. I just think it's odd to call when you don't even know if you are coming or not. Weird.

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Just as I expected, no call. I swear. This is getting so old.

I need to be careful, bc I'm afraid that I may snap on him soon.

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I get the frustration, my wife was playing coy with me today as well.

It's so hard not to react, but I think that is what we need to do. They are acting crazy, just try not to let the crazy infect us. Hang in there.


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Always assume he won't follow through. Remember detach detach detach.


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True. He's never not followed through when it came to the baby though. Just weird.

I'm over being ticked off about it. It is what it is.

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Welp. Never heard from last night and haven't heard from him yet today. Not sure if it's head games or we are both just backing away from one another. Pretty odd how one week can seem so promising and the next seems so, blah/nothing.

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No sooner than I clicked "submit" he was calling. He asked what I had planned for today, I was vague bc I didn't know where he was headed. Then he asked if he could come over and hang out. And bring his PlayStation. Asked if I needed anything as he can tell I'm still sick. I then told him I had to take my oldest daughter dress shopping and that I would call him. I'm a little reserved about this. I can't stand anymore head games but I know I'm the past when he was trying to come back that he did this very thing.

Ugh.

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It sounds like you handled it well. I wouldn't let him just come over whenever he wants. That sounds like cake-eating.


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Temp taking. He feels like he is losing control and is trying to reassert it. I would tell him no thank you.


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*Update*

After he had called I did as I said. Picked up kids from school, dropped my middle two with grandpa and took my oldest dress shopping. While there, he texts me asking if I was home yet. I kinda laughed to myself bc this is always how he has been. I just respond no and continue shopping with my daughter. When we got home I let him know. So he heads over. He wanted to buy us all dinner. It was almost like old times. It's funny how that can happen,huh? He did mention me not answering his call from the weekend. Said it was two days. I laughed and said umm?it was only a day.

He stayed from about 6 until 10:30. I did want him to stay, but wasn't upset that he left. He said he's gonna call me today and maybe come over. We shall see. I'm not expecting anything.

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