I can see what you guys are saying. It just seems odd after he called me and very obviously wanted me to stay on the phone. I'm not gonna over think it anymore. I just know to not do that next time. Thanks!
I'm having a rough time tonight. I've been sick these past couple of days. It makes me miss him even more. All the what ifs are haunting me. What if these past couple of weeks weren't him really wondering. Maybe he is just being nice. I just miss him and want him to come back.
It is normal to feel that. We all do from time to time.
Find something to do to GAL. Get out, exercise, see a movie.
Hang in there!
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
I'm really feeling like throwing in the towel. I don't know if it's because I'm sick, or starting this new job, but I just feel like this waiting game is ridiculous. I feel like he's playing games when he is bored.
Giving up the R is always an option. There is no shame in that. Giving up on yourself and your GALing, and doing the work you need to improve yourself - that is not an option. Let him go. Drop the rope. Once you do that you can focus more on yourself.
No matter what happens you will come out of this stronger.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
It is true, giving up is an option. I feel like it's a forced option at this point.
He called earlier. My daughter was on my phone watching videos while I slept with the baby. I didn't call back. I kinda figure if it neeeded he will call back or text. Just not sure I can deal with it today.
It is true, giving up is an option. I feel like it's a forced option at this point.
He called earlier. My daughter was on my phone watching videos while I slept with the baby. I didn't call back. I kinda figure if it neeeded he will call back or text. Just not sure I can deal with it today.
Good job!
There will be tough days. They will pass. Just try to remember this.
I don't think you are ready to throw in the towel. I think you are tired of holding. Tired of mixed signals. I get it. Be sick and worn out makes it worse. This too will pass.
Keep up the detachment. It's good for you as well as the chances of saving the m.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
That's the thing... we aren't married. Pretty dang close. But that's the one thing that makes me different on here. Pretty sad huh? I'm over here stressing a guy who didn't even marry me.
So he called today at noon. I answered. He was asking why I didn't answer yesterday. I told him and he seemed slightly agitated. Said if the rain clears up he might come by to see the baby.
I hear you. I am in a very similar situation. Don't wait around for him. Get out and do something. The worst thing for the LBS is waiting...
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
