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Hi Lady V, take the ' night visitor ' veey seriously, as others have said you don't need to be told that and im so glad to see ypu have taken measures to protect yourself. That is very unpleasant and unnerving. Please be vigilant.

As to the weight thing , i agree with others that 7lbs isn't much. If however it makes a difference to your feelings regarding yourself then go for it and get rid. I know your an attractive lady but it sometimes matters not what others think but how we perceive ourselves.

I am delighted to hear about your dates and watch out for those people just looking for sex , ( their great !!!)

Extra , extra vigilance, G is a berk and I ( among plenty.of others on here no doubt ) would have to fly over and 'explain'and few things to him.

Take extra care, Rd

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Originally Posted By: AndrewP
Brits are just Canadians with better beer and less polar bears.


Yep, and Canadians are some of the nicest people on Earth so if a Canadian is mucking around in your backyard during the night, then most likely, they're doing something helpful.

And, I heard, through the grapevine, that Canadian tryptamines are on sale, 20% off this week. Apparently the Canadian tryptamine is better than British ale.

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I love that you are taking these steps to protect yourself.

(you know what they say about men who have small feet)

much love Lady V xoxoxoxo


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Originally Posted By: bttrfly
(you know what they say about men who have small feet)
I am size 11 1/2 EEE - Just putting that out there laugh


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Andrew I LOVE YOU! Thanks for that chuckle!


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Sadly it wasn't Liam either he is a size 12.

Sigh

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This morning I hit a brick wall. Been doing great recently and I have an exam at 2 pm. So I have to leave in 10 mins to make the venue, but I am still in bed at 12:15 triggered and experiencing trauma.

I suffer this and walk to the pain, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. My mantra and I play the song Stronger.

Well now I put it out there so it's time to shift my button.

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Good luck on your exam, V. I know you will knock it out of the park. Hang in there, lady! Lots of love, hugs and prayers are surrounding you.


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Thank you lovely gorgeous Dawn.

I pushed through my shame of wasting time today and took myself to the door of hell. I am so tired and triggered, it happens.

Probably didn't do as well as I should, but I did it.

I guess it's shame of who I am, of not being healed of allowing crap to rot my soul. It passes but cripples emotions. The damage of abuse continues.

Sharp spikes of shame.

I am ashamed of me and only being honest works to face it.

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Dearest V,
The shame isn't yours, it's his for causing such harm to another.

Healing takes time. You are one of the most courageous people here. You may be afraid, but you face it down and get on with life.

Are you better than you were yesterday? A month ago? Last year? Healing is a marathon, not a sprint.

From my perspective, you're amazing!

xoxoxoxoxo


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