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I defer to others who may know better

I never had to snoop or find out because w told me directly

Do you need to know

What would that do for you

Would that embolden you

I am a fan of asking directly

But I do not know your dynamics well enough if that would work for you

The expectations thing is hard

It is related to the saying your old m is dead even if you are not divorced

Only then can you get to zero and even then it is hard


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That one was too long to go single line with no punctiation


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Oh no


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That one was single lines with no punctuation


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Wife is moving out and talking divorce. Dark day in my world.


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I am so sorry, it must be very hard right now not being able to post and talk about it.

If this comes through hang in there, and just try to stay non reactive whatever is going on.

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