I can't believe your H woke up your S to tell him this. Such a selfish inconsiderate act.
HW, it sounds like you are standing up for yourself and I like it. Give your sons some time to let this sink in and expect more questions. Once H is out....I predict a very new energy in your home, better for you all.
Sounds like the boys see his BS for what it is. I love that they feel comfortable with you. My S and I became much closer after BD and have been since.
So, how are you doing with all of this? A lot has happened in the last few weeks for you. I hope you are taking care of yourself and I really hope some peace will come once Mr. Grumpy is gone. I'm so sorry how this has turned out.
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Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
