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You have to respond in order to prevent him being able to say you won't communicate with him about the kids. But don't respond to every little bit of the message, don't get sucked into an argument. Just brief, calm, short answers. No snark no negativity. Don't get sucked into defending yourself, just answer matter-of-factly.


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Howdy! Howdy! Howdy! Been a super long time.

I pray all is well with all of you. Newbies and Oldies. All will be well. Prayer and Time.

I've started a new treatment and my hair is growing back --yahoo!!

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Boys are growing. smile
XH still terrible.
New W is trying to be the mediator. confused

Trying to keep peace. SUPER HARD still and it's already been 2 yrs since D.

Anyway, lots to share in the next few days. Just wanted to say hi first.

In His Love

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Romans 8:28

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So glad to hear from you! What's the new treatment?

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I am so glad that you've posted. Now, come back and tell us what all you have been up to. Congratulations on the new treatment and your hair growing back!

I'm sure the boys are growing up fast and are there to support you in their own way.

BTW, I merged your last thread w/this one since it didn't have 100 postings/replies.


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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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so nice to hear from you! tell us more! xoxoxo


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

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A box full of darkness.
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That this too, was a gift."
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It's great to hear from you! I was thinking about you recently, wondering how you are doing. Will wait for the updates!


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S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state
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