holding, I do think having her there could make it harder to detach as I was feeling all weekend as we got along great that our problems are very fixable if we tried but, she doesn't want to. My WW sees our kids having fun this weekend, goofing around, laughing as a sign that they will be OK, but if she was to actually talk to them she would feel their pain, WW is running from everything right now, not sure if she'll ever find it, not my concern though as my destination is becoming clearer.
I'm very familiar with the thought of "our problems are very fixable." You know, everyone one I tell my sitch to always says, "Everything your wife is upset about can be fixed. Why is she doing this?"
The fact of the matter is, our W's don't care about anyone else right now. It's all about them. They're on a mission to find happiness, and everyone else can go to h3ll.
Last edited by Cadet; 08/15/1703:46 AM. Reason: Start a new thread message
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
