Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 6 of 11 1 2 4 5 6 7 8 10 11
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
T
Member
OP Offline
Member
T
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
Welp had my Friday night GAL activities last night. First, I did a little shopping and bought some new threads. Second, I went out by myself, sat at the bar and got myself a big steak with a few cocktails. About 1.5 hrs into my night of enoying my steak a group of 3 ladies came up and sat beside me. One of which was 48 and going through a D herself. She was all over me, talking about sex, wanting my number, etc. etc. etc. Turns out she is the WW who has outgrown her balding husband and has been boinking her tatoo artist! Any way it was great night, I guess we'll see if she tets. Too funny smile

I feel the magic coming back.........


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 1,920
Likes: 2
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 1,920
Likes: 2
That's wicked man! What a confidence booster. I need to do that at some point. I really dislike going out to eat by myself, but this is something I will have to do and bring my extroverted side out. Nothing like getting attention from the opposite sex.

Even if I mention some woman in a conversation with my W, it drives her up the wall lol. Usually about a coworker where nothing will ever happen, but I can tell it bothers her. If she saw me at a bar talking up a woman, oh boy! hahahaha.

Enjoy Enjoy!!!


No one is coming to save you!

Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
T
Member
OP Offline
Member
T
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
Yeah, it was soo random. She wasn't really my type but either way it was cool. I also found myself sticking up for her husband since we can all relate. I was kind of torn emotionally on the inside with my own selfish desires vs feeling really bad for her husband. I just pictured my W doing the same thing........:(


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Joined: Feb 2017
Posts: 66
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Feb 2017
Posts: 66
Just picked up your thread and read about your night. Funny how now we can spot the MLCers and how weirdly desperate they are. I think we will have great dating radar when we get back in the mix.


Me-54 H-49
T-1. M-7
BD 6/13 ILYBN I threw him out
OW - 3/13
OW2 on and off Overlap w/Ow1and OW3
OW3 - 8/17
H filed 1/17
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 1,920
Likes: 2
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 1,920
Likes: 2
Joseph & Citygrl - true true. Going through this experience, I definitely have lost any interest in being the OM for some WW. Nahh! I know I can do better. I don't want no desperate WW on my arms - I want a strong and confident woman who would want me for who I am, rather than using me to escape some situation.

OTOH, sex can just be sex if you want it to. So, we'll see lol. I feel like I have a really good idea of what I'd want now than I did previously.


No one is coming to save you!

Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
T
Member
OP Offline
Member
T
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
I agree.....I asked her a ton of questions about her husband and why she felt like she did. She couldn't explain it just felt nothing for him and she was done. She also said he was working real hard and making changes and that really pissed her off. She said why didnt he do that when I felt differently. I told her to give him a chance, see what he can do, etc. I actually felt bad for him because it sounded like he was probably like us.

She said the cheating with her tatoo guy just happened that it wasn't planned. But I could tell she was sexaully repressed or felt like it and I know if I wanted to she would have went home with me. All she talked about was how hot I was and sex. She honed in on the fact that I didn't have a ring on and it went from there. I think she felt like she was better or more attractive than her husband. Like she had a higher sex rank.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Joined: Feb 2017
Posts: 66
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Feb 2017
Posts: 66
Ick. She just sounds gross to me and probably diseased by now. Surprised she noticed no wedding ring. I thought it was guys with wedding rings that were girl magnets. That and when they have a baby as an accessory. Lol.


Me-54 H-49
T-1. M-7
BD 6/13 ILYBN I threw him out
OW - 3/13
OW2 on and off Overlap w/Ow1and OW3
OW3 - 8/17
H filed 1/17
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
T
Member
OP Offline
Member
T
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
Yeah...thats what I say. She just texted me and thanked me for the interesting conversation last night. I am not going to take the bait.........:).


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
T
Member
OP Offline
Member
T
Joined: Jul 2017
Posts: 4,560
Just an update....had kid pick up this am from my W and took my girls to church. Got up early and hit the gym, chest/biceps then came home, got showered and put on a new shirt that is tight. I just bought it and didn't realize it. Got to W's apt and she was a little more chatty than usual. On my way out she touched my arm and then came out to the back patio of her apt to talk to us as we left. Those two things have not happened in a while. Interestingly enough my w was not wearing a bra either which normally she does and had on some loose v neck t-shirt. I just went about my business Bau maybe I am reading too much into it but it seemed maybe in some weird way she was flirting. Any thoughts from the ladies on the board? She had shorts on too so it wasn't like she had a robe on with pjs if that makes sense. Btw I was nice but didn't take the bait.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Joined: Jun 2007
Posts: 18,666
Likes: 1
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Jun 2007
Posts: 18,666
Likes: 1
"Bait" is a good word for it.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Page 6 of 11 1 2 4 5 6 7 8 10 11

Moderated by  Cadet, DnJ, job, Michele Weiner-Davis 

Link Copied to Clipboard