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You will thrive, I am sure of that.

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SBJ thinking of you and your family. Stay safe xoxoxo
Sending prayers.


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SBJ, yes you will thrive. You've been doing the work and learning how to get through to the other side of this. You have a great support system here that you can turn to for advice, an ear, or just a virtual hug. It gets better. It really does. Sending good vibes and best wishes to you.


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SBJ - I've noticed you've not posted since the hurricane landed.

I hope you and your family are well and safe.


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We are just Southeast of Houston and are getting pounded right now. I have several friends who have lost their homes due to the flooding and some are staying with us right now. It brings new meaning to Hurricane Party. Please keep all of us on Texas in your prayers. We are stocked up on water, coffee, beer and whisky. Oh, and we have some food. Haha.

I feel happy that I have all of my kids thru all of this, but the XW hasn't asked for me to help her out thru any of this. I guess they want independence then you have to give them their independence.

God bless Texas!!!


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SBJ,

Our thoughts are with you. Be safe.

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Yes, SBJ,
Thinking of you. The images from TV are heartbreaking.


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Please stay safe and sound. I am keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers.


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Keeping you and all of Texas in my prayers. Hope everything is ok.


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Spent the day today evacuating people from a small town near me by boat. 60_70% of the homes there are under water. Most of the houses had 4-6' inside of them. It is totally devastating. These folks have lost everything but the clothes they have on their backs and a small bag of cherished items.

At one point the guy I was riding with and I started to discuss how these people were wading thru all of their memories. It got me thinking about our MLC'ers and how they must view their lives previously. Nothing makes sense. Cherished memories locked up tight inside something, but not accessible to see. Other memories floating in the flood waters never to be seen again.

For now I have lost my best friend and my wife, but I still have all of my memories and the truth of our marriage in tact. These people have lost big time. I hope and pray that God will restore all that has been stolen from them...mind, body & spirit. Not to mention all of their homes and belongings.

BTW...the XW has called a couple of times during this crisis to inform me about something she has heard. Telling me about weather alerts or safety alerts. For someone who doesn't care...she sure does care alot. Crazy.


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HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
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