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It does. You can hold me to it.


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Glad you are back in the house, and do not leave - she should leave if she wants out of the marriage.

Especially if your blood sweat and tears went into building the house


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The reason the house is an issue is my 8 year old daughter wants to stay there.I can't afford the house on my own. I gave my wife a buyout that is affordable for her and also benefits me. In six years I retire, and with the deal, she gets none of my pension. I lose around $40k up front but I don't have to give her $700 a month out of my pension when I turn 51. Really [censored], but in the end it's a good deal for all. Of course, she is threatening to not take it if I go for equal time with my daughter.


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Hello Joel19,

I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.

It is going to sound like an echo around here, but you should stay in the MBR and your home. If she wants out of the marriage, she needs to jump through the hoops to make it happen.

Now is the time to focus on being the best Joel19 and Dad that only a fool would leave. What activities do you enjoy with your daughter?

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