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I agree with all your great advice. I definitely do need to live a life. For now I play in a new band (sorta thing), but still spend much time getting my dads house ready for sale since he passed unexpectedly in February


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thank you for your comments. in hindsight i chose to avoid confrontation when anger had the best of me for a brief passing moment. the time of a stance will come when i am best informed and able to do so for me. i am still growing. often by leaps and bounds, but then in baby steps, challenging myself to install lifelong change, for me. I ask than anyone reading anything i write to challenge me, question me and help me continue to grow. to you all, thank you


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Today i put down our sick dog, tough day as it was one of the last remnants of our life together


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I'm sorry. I had to do the same with our sweet German Shepherd about a year after my exH left. ((Hug)))

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Thanks. Suddenly much emptier than before


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I'm sorry, Sjs. I know that was very hard.


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I appreciate that. Still no great change in my WAW, yet with the passage of time i sense she's too far gone.


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I am so sorry for your loss. It's difficult when you have to let a family pet go.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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much appreciated


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since bomb drop my wife leaves on weekends, its been 9 months, we get along well, say thank you when we do something for one another, yet i need to rekindle a spark envoke intrigue. by all means please share any thoughts or suggestions


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