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job #2748129 06/23/17 05:50 AM
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Hi Job, I will leave him be......I'm in no hurry and if he wants a reconciliation then I need him to do all the work.

I need him to want it,more than I do......I can't take anything less.

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Westo, so glad to hear your news!!! Happy birthday and happy clear lymph nodes.

He'll figure it out. Just sit back (and take your hikes when you are feeling better) and wait.

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Will do OwnIt.....

I'm the most important one here now, not him. I've spent too much energy there....my turn now smile

Westo #2748145 06/23/17 08:03 AM
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I'm glad you are recognizing that you are the most important person now. Take care of yourself and like you said, if he wants back bad enough, he'll do the work.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Westo - I'm thrilled to hear your good news about your lymph nodes.

One thing that job had mentioned to me might be something you may want to think about. You've done a great job of being attractive in yourself but I'm sure that the next time that your H drops by for a cuppa if there was some other good culinary smells going on - that he's not going to get - it might be a good thing. I imagine you can do up an amazing pie. Sadly our own rhubarb patch is not doing well here but S22 and I are thinking of doing up rhubarb tarts. Not that there's any sign of my own STBX - but S22 and I do love a nice rhubarb pie.


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Hi Andrew,

I've never made a pie! But I did make him a roast the other Sunday. We will see, he's coming over today to look after GD while D and me go shopping.

He's going to put some stuff of his in the garage, going to put the sun shades up in the garden and take bags of old clothes and stuff to the local recycling tip.

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Oooooo, I've just noticed the birthday cake!

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Happy birthday Westo! So pleased about your lymph nodes being clear, what a priceless birthday pressie! Xx


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So happy for you Westo! And you're right: that's the best birthday gift! Happy birthday smile Congrats on another trip around the sun, the wisdom you've gained and the peace in your heart.

much love,
-Bttrfly xoxoxo


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Happy Belated Birthday! The best present you received is a good report from your doctor. Enjoy the rest of your weekend!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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