There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Just reading back on your last few post. Glad to see that you are in a good place. Not a whole lot to add. Upward and onward!!
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Thank you, sir. I'm getting there. I can actually look and see the sun shining, and to me that's a good thing.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
So, its been a week now since the judge signed the papers and am officially divorced in this great state.
How do I feel? Actually great. And somewhat relieved. The only things now on my mind are my children. There is no sadness over the marriage. Sure, it was 10 years. At least we made it that far.
But now, I can look back without sadness. I don't know why I feel like a weight has been lifted. But now, another has replaced it. Guess it never ends, eh?
But the ex? Well, I'm done. The ex is just that, an ex. Nothing more, nothing less. I'm not angry/hateful/hurt/crying/etc. It is what it is. I fear for my kids. I don't miss my ex anymore. Sure, part of me will always love her - some buried part, that is. But, its done and I'm ok.
Now, there are some issues concerning her/her family and the alienation of the children, for starters. I'd like for it to be amicable, but its not looking that way. I tried.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Good luck moving forward and handling family issues with the kids. It can be a tough thing to navigate as I've witnessed my SIL and her Ex manipulate, alienate and all of the above.
Be well.
Trying
Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10 Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13 Reconcile: 07/07/13 Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17 Apartment Life: 04/21/17 PA Confirmed: 05/23/17
I really feel for you. I really do. About a week or so I went to the beginning of your stitch and read it all. I hope that doesn't sound creepy. You have had a roller coaster for sure. There is no denying it and to say otherwise is foolish. You're exposing your soul around here more than most and from that you are imparting a lot of wisdom(IMO). You're not sugarcoating anything. Good for you.
M 55 W 52 MR 32 T 34+ D29 BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email) No EA/PA August 23 - DB used against me in every way Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day
Now, there are some issues concerning her/her family and the alienation of the children, for starters. I'd like for it to be amicable, but its not looking that way. I tried.
You're a strong dude Jeep. Guess you keep trying for the sake of the kids, but it's got to be tough bud. You've been through a lot and I'm glad that you're finding solace after signing the papers. You do sound like you're doing well and am extremely happy for you brother. Keep staying strong for the kids, I've no doubt they've got a great dad looking out for them!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
Good luck moving forward and handling family issues with the kids. It can be a tough thing to navigate as I've witnessed my SIL and her Ex manipulate, alienate and all of the above.
Be well.
Trying
Hi Trying! Thanks for stopping by!
It's tough. The ex is trying to do a power play on me but she forgets that all I'd have to do is go back to court and the whole landscape would change. I don't want to do that...I only want what's best for the kids, but if it means doing that, then so be it.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
