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Dawgs #2733590 03/10/17 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted By: Jeep74


Gordie, my friend, how are you?

Thank you for the kind words. Not so sure I agree with my writing ability. However, I have been working on a little something that isn't related to this in any form...


I am doing better, thanks for asking...getting my s*** together, facing my demons, working on getting to that place where I will be mentally/emotionally/spiritually okay whether I D or not. And guess what? It's improved the situation with the W. Outcome is still highly uncertain, but the situation is better.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
Gordie #2733592 03/10/17 08:55 AM
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That's what its all about, my friend. You first and everything falls where it should be.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Gordie #2733610 03/10/17 10:40 AM
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Quote:
And guess what? It's improved the situation with the W


Gordie,

You'll find that applies to so much more than just your ex. Good on ya!

Oh, and see the note I put for you in the swan thread.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Gordie #2733620 03/10/17 11:33 AM
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Originally Posted By: Gordie
And guess what? It's improved the situation with the W. Outcome is still highly uncertain, but the situation is better.


That's great to hear, Gordie. You're doing a fantastic job.


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Me: 47 WW: 35
SS: 17 D: 5
T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs
OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016.
OEA continues (with occasional breaks)
BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18
Dawgs #2733839 03/13/17 04:42 AM
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Journaling.

It was a pretty good weekend. The weather wasn't exactly great yesterday so the kids and I went to see a movie. I love it when they climb into my lap even though they have their own seats. Saturday was yardwork and an ice cream cone treat at the local DQ. Great weekend.

A positive note for me - mentally/emotionally - was that my son was asking a lot of questions that took me down memory lane. Can't exactly tell him to stop asking questions...but, I found that memory lane didn't cause me to slide back down. It was actually pleasant.

I find myself not wanting to talk with the ex anymore. I just don't want to...or feel the need to anymore. Maybe I've crossed that bridge.

And there are some personal things that are looking on the up. Seems that Jeep is sought after...


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
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0900 today. The time the final decree is signed in front of the judge. Done and done.

Eff this.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
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Done and officially done now.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Dawgs #2734466 03/16/17 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted By: Jeep74
Done and officially done now.


Whats the appropriate response here? Congrats? Condolences? Both?


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
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Her loss, Jeep. Keep on keepin' on.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)
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Haha. I don't know, friend. I'm unexpectedly OK now. Now drama or sadness. It's just...empty.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
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