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job #2743206 05/13/17 04:19 PM
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Thank you Job,

I really need your words right now, I really do!

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Thank you Job,

It's funny you said him stopping by. A few weeks ago he mentioned asking D what car she had as he may have spotted it.

She never really goes anywhere, and when she asked where he'd seen her, he never answered. She lives opposite to me.

I want to tell all the LBS on here, it really does get better. Time is your best friend through this.

Embrace it....I know this may sound mad, but his madness has given me the opportunity to grow into the woman I should have years ago...

This is truly a gift...and for anyone reading this who is new to MLC, please be strong......you will get through this and be a better person, I promise.

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Westo - what a lovely update. A high five is sent at you all the way from Canada! And if you ever decide that Wales isn't able to keep up to you, I have some cabinets that need painting too laugh


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Awww AP, great to hear from you!

Second coat going on today, and if you pay for my flight, I'll be over in a flash. S works for Virgin Atlantic so I could get a discount!

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I had a mammogram two weeks ago, I have to go for more tests on Wednesday.

Ffs....never mind. I am thankful I live in a country that screens for free. smile

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Hopefully the follow up tests are just to help the radiologist see more clearly what the mammogram couldn't provide and then he/she can compare the next round of tests w/your mammograms from the previous years.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, i.e., hoping that all is well. Stay positive!


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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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Hey Westo, I was sorry to hear that you have to go for more tests following you mammogram. I just wanted you to know that I will be thinking about you tomorrow. Her is a big cwtch for you (((Westo))).


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Thank you Coly, and Job for your well wishes, and a well needed cwtch,

I will be glad to get it over with. Today has been one of those when I wish I could ff 24 hours!

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Not good news, I'm afraid.

I have a cancerous lump that will have to be removed. They did take a biopsy but it's only for confirmation as the doctor was very sure that it isn't benign.

Oh well, it could be worse. If I'd have had this happen this time last year, I would never have coped.

I'm a much stronger person now, it's just D I'm worried about, she very upset. S takes it in his stride.

I'm a firm believer in things happening for a reason and maybe H leaving me last year was to be in preparation for this.

S, on the other hand thinks its negative energy coming out this way.

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Westo, I'm sorry to read this and sending my very best wishes. A good friend of mine has recently finished treatment for breast cancer, and whilst it hasn't been the easiest year for her, she is doing very well now.

From what I read, the prognosis is generally very good now and I am sure you will learn more in coming weeks about the treatment plan for you.

In the meantime, do take care and I am sure you are right - life doesn't give us more than we can handle. (((Big hugs))) xx


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