Have you consulted with your attorney to have the settlement reviewed?
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
I have, the settlement is very fair considering our assets. She basically wants nothing. Custody is fair also. I just can't understand why she wants out so bad. We really had a special thing, or so I thought. I think trying to understand it is what bothers me the most. It consumes my thoughts most days. I don't want it to be over
Glad you consulted with your attorney. There isn't a whole lot you can to stop her from moving forward at this point.
The only thing you can do, is continue working on yourself.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
My W pushed hard for the sep agreement to be signed as well before she moved out.. My L said from his experience it is so that they can be more open with their OM relationship.. I did not want to believe this as well but it definitely has shown to be pretty true, from my current experience.. Your W if mimicking a lot of mine like I said over in my thread.. it [censored], especially that they just throw everything away like its nothing...
I wish there was more to say, at least with me my state has the mandatory 1 year period of separation before D... so I still have hope.. although its diminishing slowly each day.. The person my W is currently is not someone I want in my life.. if only she would return to her normal self or close to.. if not a more improved self from this..
W always says she just wants to get along and co-parent, yet she criticizes everything i try to do.She is usually rude and cold, or asks why?, when i ask her a question. IMhere, did your wife re-write your whole marital history too?
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Glad you consulted with your attorney. There isn't a whole lot you can to stop her from moving forward at this point.
The only thing you can do, is continue working on yourself.
This can't be stressed enough. Remember, there are two roads - yours and hers. Hers has no room for you and she is on it herself. Yours can have room for her if you so choose, but know that she most likely won't ever travel it again. Possible? Of course. Likely? Doubtful.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
