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You're so strong and such an inspiration. Just wanted to let you know we're behind you. You have been through so much, it's great you still have the energy to make changes.


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I don't remember for sure but as Ceb was going to the A to file for D wasn't he also talking with you more and going out or not? Was the first time you guys went out right before V-day?




Yeah but we'd had little to no contact up to that point - no IM, very very few emails and phone conversations. He came to the house once and even then because I practically forced him to. So I don't think you can judge CHL's actions by Ceb's.


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You're so strong and such an inspiration. Just wanted to let you know we're behind you. You have been through so much, it's great you still have the energy to make changes.


I think you have me mixed up with someone else but for today I'll take it!! Thank you.


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Yeah but we'd had little to no contact up to that point - no IM, very very few emails and phone conversations. He came to the house once and even then because I practically forced him to. So I don't think you can judge CHL's actions by Ceb's.


No, I know different person, different way of handling things. I was just wondering if there is still any doubt in his mind at all that he is doing the right thing.

I do know he wasn't going to continue the last court date and it would appear he has told my ex friend D that the d is now going through. So I'm guessing no doubts but was just wondering as we have shared some joking on IM over the past couple of days. We still seem to be able to have some good, fun interaction.


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Nah, it's you. You go back and forth and have your doubts and your downfalls and backslides. But you are here, and you are still going despite all the garbage you've been through. That's strength, dear.


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Nah, it's you. You go back and forth and have your doubts and your downfalls and backslides. But you are here, and you are still going despite all the garbage you've been through. That's strength, dear.


Well, I would say that pretty accurately describes me!

I just want the downfalls and backslides to come much less often!

BTW: Love your PMA and glad you are posting all the positives!


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Sorry guys mundane post!

Tonight:

Clean dog yard so kids can stay out for awhile

Wash load of laundry

Look for tax papers and e-mail CHL

BRUSH KIDS TEETH!!!


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Clean dog yard so kids can stay out for awhile



UGH! I've got to do this this weekend. YUCK. I haven't cleaned the dog's yard since before the snow. (Tough winter, couldn't get to it all)


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I haven't done too well this winter either. So haven't been letting them stay out now that it is nicer till I can get to it.


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Morning cuppa, Pam???

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PS I am forcing myself off this BB today, so as to get some WORK done!!!


"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
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