Newbie Thread 5

[hawker]

I'm here......haha...not much to report, W texted Tuesday about some random financial planner info....we chatted a little...friendly, not friends, not a doormat...

[NYGal]

Any news, hawker?

[hawker]

Hello...I was actually going to post....W came by last night to get her christmas tree light and a lamp....she brought dog food and alot of treats for them (I said I didn't need her to get it in the past). She apologized for telling me at school that she was filing, she said there was no good time to tell me (duh)....she played with the dogs a little and she told me about her job and family.

She told me that she could stay at the house if I needed someone to watch the dogs over xmas...of course I said NO...

She also said her mom, sister and nephew were coming in Jan for a few days and said she could bring the nephew over to see the dogs? Or meet for lunch? I was like I don't know...

She is filing for D but wants it all still I see....

Then this am I was at her school but left because there was a program so I didn't have class. A half hour later she texted asking if I took the morning off or if I was sick....I haven't seen her at school for the past month since we are in different gyms at the present time. So she either looked for my car or came to find me...who knows...

We exchanged a few texts, she is down on herself because she can't workout cuz of her back and she can't lose weight. I said it must be frustrating.....she replied "it takes a toll" "all of this takes a toll"....

Just a few other notes, she reached out to our mutual friends who haven't seen her since July and wanted to know if they wanted to grab a drink....


Anyhow...yes I know she still wants to cake eat...she knows I don't want to be friends....I need to get back to not talking to her so much, I don't want her to think this is all ok, I wasn't emotional so that is good, yes I still miss her but would never say that....

[fightin]

Ugh, they all want to cake eat, so frustrating. I think you handled everything quite well! Keep up the good work, my friend!

[bsb]

I also think you did well! Hang in there!!

The whole friends thing is crazy! My wife thinks she can come see the dog whenever she wants once we are divorced. I put a stop to that real quick!

[hawker]

Thanks fightin and bsb...I don't know how good I did but she seemed different lately...not that it matters but what are some of the signs they are coming out of the "fog"? I'm not saying she is/isn't and I'm not hoping anything I just didn't know if there were signs...lol...

I actually feel pretty good, I have been busy with work and having activities with my friends. The weather is perfect here, little chilly in the am and pm but the daytime is awesome.

I am supposed to go out of town this weekend with 2 of my friends, one is a little sick so we might not go if she doesn't feel better

[fightin]

Girl, if you figure out what the "signs" are let us all know. For me, unless my W comes to me just about begging for forgiveness I wouldn't believe her if she even said she missed me.

Glad to hear you're feeling pretty good and take full advantage of your awesome weather! Also, enjoy your trip, hope your friend feels better soon!

[hawker]

Hahaha that was funny fightin....ya my W would never beg for forgiveness...she is to proud and I am sure she doesn't wanna be the one to admit she was wrong...I was just curious as to what it looks like....

My friend is feeling better so the quick little weekend trip is a go...its gonna be cold there though...maybe I should stay home and golf hahaha...

[fightin]

Ha, well, that's what the "just about begging" was for. My W is also extremely proud and doesn't admit she's wrong. She'd argue with a brick wall trying to convince it to see things her way if she thought it disagreed with her.

Yay to the trip still being on! Eh, I say go with your friends, you can golf later. It is so cold here it almost makes my WW's heart toward me look warm. Almost.

[hawker]

Haha it must be cold!!!!!!!