For the nephew, I'd do whatever you want to do in your name only.
I would skip Christmas cards this year.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
I agree w/Rose's advice. I would send a card w/a small gift to the nephew in your name only. I wouldn't share what you have done w/your w. After all, you are separated at the moment and what you do is none of her business and vice versa.
As for the Christmas cards, if you have a few very close friends or family members (who know about your situation), then send a card, but only in your name...otherwise, I would skip them this year. There's no need for everyone to know what is going on w/you and your w at this time. Again, I wouldn't share what I was doing w/your wife.
P.S. Time to start a new thread.
Last edited by job; 10/24/1611:06 AM.
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