That's a horror movie. And we all know how Love Story ended.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Yes....ran into her at school today...I told her to pay the phone bill since she was a day over due.....I tried to avoid her....she wanted to tell me all about her surgery....blah....
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
Went and read BluWave's first thread again today, it really provides alot of great information, advice, encouragement and reminding us to work on ourselves for our own well being no matter what happens so that we become better in relationships. I also listened to the podcast Joe Beam's 3 stages of Limerence....very interesting info!
Off to do some yardwork then TNF!!
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
I'll need to go back and peel through BluWaves thread. Sounds like some stuff we all should re-read. I'd offer it's not only about being better at relationships, I really think all of this is about being better at "life". Mules sums it up very succinctly as "strength and honor". Words to live by. If you're being true to yourself then every part of your life, including those people in it, benefit.
You sound like you're in a good place hawk. It makes me happy to see some of the imbalance in the forum shake its way out after the past few weeks. Seems like us "summer" folks hit some rough patches for a bit. Thank you for being a continuous voice of support in my thread! You rock hawk!!!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18
Thanks lt... yes go to blu's first thread, Vanilla had a great post on there as well. You are right it is being better at life and being true to ourselves. We can't fix our spouses and we shouldn't have to, they need to go on their own journey. I am in an ok place, I have my moments but I know God has a plan and I have to trust in that.... you rock as well LT and I really appreciate the support.
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
