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I also want to add challenging...

And in that fashion...

Cadet--two things

Stubbornness ?

and these are qualities. I thought you wanted goals? smile



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Originally Posted By: cat04
Cadet--two things

Stubbornness ?

and these are qualities. I thought you wanted goals? smile

Well 2 answers
I was waiting for someone to ask
Stubborn - I NEVER give up! , I NEVER QUIT! I see it as a good quality, others may question that.

Give me an example of your goals.


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Originally Posted By: Cadet
I saw on another thread, about naming 5 things, or qualities that we wanted to show the world, or qualities that we wanted to have, regardless of what we received in return.

I think that plays along with what DB tells us about goal setting.

So I would like everyone to post their own personal 5 qualities.

Lets see who wants to participate?

I am going to add mine in here at the beginning.

1) A great DAD
2) Loyal
3) Honest
4) Dependable
5) Stubborn


First off, I wanna say I love this idea for a thread Cadet! grin
Second, I love the 5th quality you have there as Stubborn.
I know someone is gonna stop and go, "SAYWHAAAAA????"
But I gotta say, being stubborn and sticking to ones principles, course of action, not budging in the face of challenges when going after goals, is one helluva quality that many o successful a person possesses.
Well done today I say my good fellow. cool

So, I am gonna steal the first one from you, (imitation is that flattery thing and all wink )

1. A phenomenal father
2. Definite Aim, Vision and Purpose
3. Positive Attitude and Perseverance
4. Loyal to self, family, friends
5. Confident

Goals with these are in progress.

Thanks for Cadet for an awesome thread.


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Goals:

1. To communicate with positive words to my boys and everyone that I interact with.

2. Stay calm no matter what the circumstance is.

3. Reflect on 3 things I did well at the end of each day.

4. Smile 5 times a day.

5. Do what I say I am going to do.


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Did my best to not read anyone's before posting here goes..

1. Honest
2. Loyal
3. Great mom
4. Kind/Caring - I think these two go hand in hand smile
5. Determined/Driven - I think these two go hand in hand too!


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Cadet, how about 'persevering' instead of stubborn? Or determined, maybe tenacious? wink

So you asked for goals and qualities... some of my better qualities are

- honesty
- integrity
- loyalty

Two of my goals are
- to become a better listener
- to do more for others.


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Cadet #2700916 08/31/16 04:47 AM
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Originally Posted By: Cadet
Originally Posted By: cat04
Cadet--two things

Stubbornness ?

and these are qualities. I thought you wanted goals? smile

Well 2 answers
I was waiting for someone to ask
Stubborn - I NEVER give up! , I NEVER QUIT! I see it as a good quality, others may question that.

Give me an example of your goals.


Cadet,

You know I just love to give you a hard time smile

I like you answer and I too don't see stubborn as a bad thing most of the time.

Goals...right now they are a little basic...

1. Get through these courses with my GPA in tact.
2. Have a relaxing, very relaxing, and fun vacation.
3. Get the cat fixed after vacation.
4. Finish the sewing project I am working on.
5. Eat more vegetables.



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
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